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My ex is confusing me?

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For a while now, my ex has been a little bit confusing. We were invited to a wedding for his brother, which is odd because we are really not that close to the family. We went and I did see my ex there. He said hello and told me I looked nice. After that he completely ignored me. So i did the same. My mom though noticed that everywhere I went he made sure to be there too. Later on, out of nowhere he came up to me and asked if I wanted to dance. I said yes and we talked a bit. He told me how he was a doctor now and joked about taking me to dinner. Later on after we had left, he had thanked my mom for coming and told her to take care of me. The problem is, I have no idea why he is being so nice. For a while, before the wedding, he was kind of jerky and would say things about me to other people. He did lighten up and bit and even sent me a graduation gift and apologized on the phone for not coming to my grad party. What is going on?

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  1. Remember, he's an ex for a reason.  Let it go and move on with your life.  Sounds like he can sweet talk you into just about anything he wants.  I'm telling you from experience, walk away clean and let it go.


  2. Leave your ex alone. He was jerky before the wedding and didn't get nice to you until the reception, and probably too much too drink. You just graduated - you have a whole new world opening up - enjoy that !

  3. YOU DONT MISS YOUR WATER TIL THE WELL IS DRY..HE IS CONFUSED ...DON'T LET HIS CONFUSION TAINT YOU...KEEP IT PUSHIN CAUSE HE HAS THAT TITLE FOR A REASON..."EX"  

  4. Maybe he wants to try it again, now that you have graduated and now making money!

  5. He's probably sending out these 'niceties' as feelers to see how you'll react.  

    Just remember, he's an EX for a reason.  Don't be fooled.

  6. I think he is your ex for a reason maybe he has alittle regret going  

  7. He is playing a passive agressive game with you.  Pretending to be nice, wanting you and confusing you on purpose.  He wants you to make the first move and then he can pick and choose if he "feels" like fooling with you.  I would stay far far away from him.  So what if he is a doctor.  That doesn't qualify him as an emotionally available quality man.  You deserve better.  Ignore him and move on.  He is a game player and controlling you and taking pride in it.

  8. He realizes he made a BIG mistake letting you get away. If you are still interested in him maybe you should reconsider. If you arent just ignore him. But he is a doctor. think about that

  9. i think your ex is confused himself

  10. Who hasn't said bad things about their ex? Usually that's a sign that you either had a horrible relationship OR that they still have feelings for you that they're not sure what to do with. Were you dating someone else at the time he was talking about you? Might have been jealousy.

    His recent "nice" behaviour could be a result of wanting to reconnect with you on a romantic level, or even on a platonic level. Go to dinner with him, and see what's what. Don't assume anything until he make his intentions clear.

  11. ego trip.  sounds obvious to me  <shrug>

    no wonder you left him

  12. Yep, he is an EX for a reason.
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