My ex keeps "harassing" me. What should I do?

Question

Ok, so my ex dumped me in an email saying that he wasnt ready for a relationship. Within the next weeks he has another girlfriend. I got really angry, but eventually got over it, cause lets face it, he wasnt that great. So, now he comes begging for my forgiveness and says that he wants to be friends and that he never meant to hurt me like he did. I have told him many times that we are done, and I cant forgive him, but he keeps emailing me, calling me, iming me etc. So please what should I do to get him off of my trail?

Answer 1

next time he calls tell him to stop calling an that you don't want to hear from him at all. Then he'll get it is over with..

Answer 2

Well my suggestion would be get a new email address,a new number...and if he tries to harass you physically get a restraining order,i hope everything goes well ) :  

Answer 3

Tell him you're done and are going to block him if he can't leave you alone.  Then ignore him. Completely.  Block his number on your phone, block his email address, block his IMs.

If it escalates from there, like he starts arriving on your front porch, you could contact the police and file a restraining order.  More likely, though, if you first tell him it's over and you don't want to hear from him and will ignore him from there on out, he'll just eventually give up.

Answer 4

Threaten him with the police.

I'm sure they could get something done..

Answer 5

First, tell him to stop.  If he doesn't, then block his emails, his calls, and his IMs.  If he does go further, as to going to your house, then threaten him with the police and a restraining order.  

Hope this helped!  :D

Answer 6

restraining orders sounds nice.  

Answer 7

ignore him. sumtimes, that's the only thing u can do. if he shows up at ur door, don't answer. if he calls, don't pick up. if u c him sum where and he walks up to u, keep ur head and act like he doesn't even exist. don't pay him any attention at all. no matter how he tries. after, he'll get the message and leave u alone.

Answer 8

What you need to do if you want to be completely done with him is to block his email account. You can do this on essentially any email system: aol, aim, hotmail, etc. Also block him on IM. This way, he will not be able to harrass you via instant message or email. If he still doesn't get the message that you're done, call your wireless provider and have his number blocked. I've done this several times and it's a great solution. Also, if he ends up trying to confront or harrass you in person, either walk away or maturely tell him that you don't want anything to do with him and if he persists on pestering you, you will have a restraining order placed against him. If this doesn't automatically scare him off, press charges by all means. Good luck!

Answer 9

change ur e-mail and ur phone number and ur instant messaging. change it all he will get the hint. or if you don't want to do that get a guy friend to threaten him so he can leave you alone.

Answer 10

kik his **** ohh yeaaa

Answer 11

wow sounds exactly like my ex (although I'm a guy, and she was a girl). To get her off my back, I had to p**s her off so that she hated me. I didn't like doing it, but it was the only way. BEFORE you do that though, make sure it cant be done by just telling him to leave. Also, if he's at all abusive etc., or you think he may be mentally ill, don't try it, because it will just make things worse, instead seriously think of getting some help from someone you trust. hope this helped :)  

Answer 12

you can easily set up your email or IM to block him- but don't let him know you've blocked him or he'll IM you on a different sn.  I think you can set your phone to block him number too.  And if he tries to see you or talk to you after all these blocks- threaten to call the police on him.  Tell him you can't forgive him and that if he has any kind of real respect for you and your feelings- he should leave you alone.  That you would be happiest if he left you alone.  If you have some big guy friends or even some sassy gal friends (you know the type who won't hesitate to cuss someone out)- you can ask them to tell him off too.