My ex said hes reporting me to the police?

Question

i was with him for two years soo inlove, then he .. left me when i told him i was pregnant... his family wants me to abort and he suddenly got another gf he has been with since he left me! im having a baby and he is the father and he should be there. so i imed him and said ill drown his new gf.. and he told me hes going to call the police... and so what if he does, the police will understand, hes a **** and i told him ill drown him too... they have dinner on the beach a lot. he told me he hates the beach, two years and i went with him to the beach like once.. should i apologize? =\\

Answer 1

ehh just tell them you're hormonal lol they shouldn't put you in jail cause your pregnant and he DOES need to be there plus you didn't do anything

Answer 2

yeah I agree, blame the hormones.

But from now on don't ever write anything like that online, like in instant messenger because he can save them and than use them against you.

Answer 3

def not apologize the only thing the police can accuse you of is a threat.  if you never made ans attempt to hurt them your fine.  unless you left harrassing phone calls then he could get a restraining order and accuse you of stalking. but just file a judgment against him for child support when the baby is born and make sure to get a paternity test to prove in court he's the father.

Answer 4

okay if he does report you to the police he does have a solid case against you don't feed into his stupidity baby girl leave him alone

Answer 5

Being pregnant is a beautiful and ugly time for all women and men. Being a women you feel a lot of different emotions and sometimes you express it in not such a graceful way that you usually express it.

But you must remember that even though it is a scary time for you, it is also a scary time for the guy. All of a sudden they are faced with fears about being able to provide, and being a responsible dad. Even though it is hard don't call him with a lot of drama just let him be. Keep him updated on doctor appointments so when he is ready he will come back.

I am not giving you advise that I would not do myself. My son is now 11 mos. but when I was pregnant my sons dad left me and got another girlfriend. He too told me things that do not apply to the new girlfriend but, I kept him informed on appointments and endured his family calling me names outside of my name and he eventually came around and talked to his family about there emotions.

I not saying that your ex will do the same, not every guy grows up to be a man. Just pray and talk to someone. That kept me from going crazy and if you want to can talk to me. I have been through it and can tell you that there is a way out.

Answer 6

h**l no, you should not apologize. Just have him take a DNA test once you have his baby and if it is his and he is still not there for you and your baby get child support.

Answer 7

ehh....that was a little overboard, but i cant say i didnt threaten my (then ex) boyfriend when i told him i was pregnant and he bugged out, didnt speak to me except for screaming at me, and told me to have an abortion. i told him i was gonna knock on his door, walk right past his mom up to his room and shoot him with his own gun....lol. i freaked out on him for a good few months, but then...i LEFT HIM ALONE, stopped bothering him and yelling at him, and he came back to me when i was 7 months pregnant. we're together now and happy....it could happen to you, boys need time to realize things, they get scared when they hear "im pregnant". anyways....try leaving him alone, if he calls the cops they will most likely just warn you and tell you to stop contacting him. because right now you really have no reason to contact him, after the baby is born your lawyer has every right to contact him though and get that DNA test and child support.....but as for right now it sucks but you gotta go through it alone and leave him alone, he obviously doesnt want anything to do with you right now and you buggin out isnt helping.

Answer 8

wow, you're a psycho.

Answer 9

Well since you plan on keeping the baby, first of all you cant use it as a bargining tool, secondly your bringing another life into this world and you need to be the bigger person and make it right. the babys father will be apart of his life and that means that youll have to learn to get along with him for the childs sake. Its time to be an adult and move on and try and be the best mother you can be so your child dosnt grow up to be another statistic.  good luck