My ex still has feelings for me how do i...?

Question

my ex bf broke up with me and obviously still has feelings for me... keeps iming me,commenting my pictures, talking about the song called "without you victor" and that just happens to be his name...and told all my friends that hes stupid for breaking up with me,and every chance he gets when im on the phone with one of our friends that we have in common he tells them to say hi to me.

so hes obviously lost and idk if he regrets it, but how do i make him regret it? should i just act like idc and im over him?

Answer 1

You didn't give a reason as to why he broke up with you, or tell us how you feel about him and the situation.

What exactly is it that you want to make him regret? Something he did or the fact that he broke up with you?

I think the give a little, take a little often works. Give him a little attention, then ignore him a bit, then give him a bit more etc. Talking with him about how you feel might also make him see things more clearly too.

Answer 2

It depends on you. Firstly why did you two break up? I guess he broke up with you. The other very important thing is, do you want him back or want to move on?

If you want him back - give him some signs. Talk to him, don't ignore him, if you want to tease him go ahead, make him suffer a bit if you want to. But if you want him back then you could just tell him or give him obvious signs.

If you want to move on away from him - if you want a clean break, don't encourage him at all. If you just want to make it plain that you two are over, then just ignore him, don't give him false hopes (unless you want him to suffer, of course). If you want him to suffer then you can tease him but I would suggest not because it's really painful for him.

Whatever it is, just make yourself clear :) All the best!

Answer 3

He broke up with you. Let him stew in his decision. Go on with your life. Start seeing someone else. If he still cares, and if you do, eventually, you may come back together. But with a better understanding, hopefully.

Answer 4

Everyone still has "feelings" for someone after breaking up.  I think you have the answer - act like you dont care and you're over him.