My ex wants to get back together and i have no idea what to do...help please?

Question

I recently split with a guy called Adam. And since then ive been asked out and ive found out that 3 of my closest friends have a crush on me. Im not interested in anyone at the moment but my ex boyfriend before Adam, called Andy, had just asked me out again. Ive told him ive had to think about it and ill tell him on thursday. But hesbeen saying he really hopes i say yes and i just dont know what to do.

I miss having someone to hold me but i like being single too. I dont know if im ready for a relationship since Adam cheat on me. My friend thinks i should give it a go and if it doesnt work just tell him im not ready.

Anyone have any advise or has been in this situation before? I would be extreamly gratefull, thank you xx

Answer 1

i say give it a go if your not ready then just tell him that ..... im sure he will understand .......

good luck!!!!!!!........

Answer 2

He wound up your X and in your past for a reason ,,,, Think about that and see what you come up with ,,,, If things didn't click the first time then it's most likely they won't again ,,,,     If you remember these things well enough then don't be afraid to tell him to leave you alone ,,,, A leopard never changes his spots neither do 99% of the gland heads either ,,,,     //  

Answer 3

Stay away from x's and friends. Guys always have crushes on their female friends in hopes they may get with her down the road... which is a possibility you have said. If your not interested in anyone right now just wait it out and see what happens. Maybe you'll meet someone completely different and more of what your looking for. Good Luck

Answer 4

dont blame a guy for what another guy did..basically just because adam cheated doesnt mean the other one will. if your not ready or have doubts just wait. if not go for it.