My family's such a mess! What can I do?

Question

My daughter's pregnant and 13 (Rosy),my other daughter's in hospital fighting menangitis... my son's disabled from being attacked by a hippopotomus... what next?! What have I done wrong?! I've always told Rosy that education's a priority, I've taken her to s*x education evenings! She knows that she shouldn't be having s*x at this age - I've taken every precaution - I've taught her all the right things! And my baby girl - what can you do to prevent them from getting these diseases? And Ben - well it's a long story. How do I get through this?

Answer 1

sorry you are going through a rough time. you need to allow Go to be a part of your life and put it in His hands, He will help you through your hard times and be there for you when its over .  

Answer 2

Well. It might be because of drugs. You should check!

Answer 3

Hope u suing the Zoo or did you keep the hippo in your backyard, as for Rosy well she can look after herself as for Ben maybe Mr, jackson can help you there after all they were friends .

Answer 4

hun dont worry.. every family has issues! its a part of life!

Answer 5

wow i am sorry to hear that

but wow at 13? when i was at middle school there was a 14 year old girl that had to drop out because she was pregnant...that was the youngest age i have heard of anyone that can be pregnant...and now 13? the best thing you can do is pray that everything will be good, sorry to hear that and hope your family will fall back in place

Answer 6

im ummm eh sorry to hear about all this...

pray maybe??

Answer 7

13 and pregnant? I am sorry, I am almost 13 and it just seems unreal to me. The only real option is abortion, even though it may be considered murder, I'm really not sure what you can do about that one? Take the baby in? Put it up for adoption?

You haven't done anything wrong. Just take of your son, daughters, and family, and don't forget to pray.

Answer 8

I want to hear about the Hippopotamus....

Whether anyone admits it or not if you instill good in children and bring them up to respect themselves, have good values and morals, when they turn thirteen you do not have to worry about them being pregnant.

Now, the baby and meningitis. It's an inflammation of the meninges, the membranes that line the brain and the spinal cord. Meningitis is usually caused either by a virus ("aseptic meningitis") or by bacteria.

Meningitis that affects babies up to 2 or 3 months old is called neonatal meningitis. Whether viral or bacterial, it can be very serious, and any delay in treatment could put your baby at risk for deafness, mental retardation, and death.

In older babies and children, when meningitis is caused by a virus, it's typically milder and goes away on it own within ten days. Bacterial meningitis, on the other hand, comes on fast and is very serious.

Most viruses that cause meningitis in children are from the group known as enteroviruses — for example, coxsackie, the virus behind hand, foot, and mouth disease, is an enterovirus that can lead to meningitis. Other viruses, such as herpes simplex (responsible for cold sores), can also be to blame. Bacteria that can cause meningitis include group B streptococci (GBS) and Haemophilus influenzae type B (the cause of Hib disease).

Now about that Hippopotamus...

Answer 9

you must be joking right? i mean come on, my son is disabled from being attacked by a hippopotamus, that is outrageous!!!!! very funny though!!1

Answer 10

go to church and see if you can get some help there taking care of your son and getting through to your youngest daughter.

Answer 11

a hippopotumous, woww.

I'm soo sorry. Just pray.

God is always here for these situations, as for the baby, it's your daughters choice whether abortion is right or not. Time will heal the broken heart.

Answer 12

mi sister is disabled,

you just have to get through it

even  though sometimes

are really

tough

and let the hospital take care of

the meningitis girl

and fer the pregnant one

ground her

and support

her after all she has to feel

guilty enough

but right now just pray and relax

think that everyhting wil be okay,

because i noe it will be

(:

and can you tell me about the hippo

story?

i would really like to know

Answer 13

God is just testing you.

Answer 14

thats pretty messed up theres not really much you can do though just keep on going and try to work things out. i think having a baby will be pretty good birth control for the future

Answer 15

God don't give you to much than you could handle. Pray about it he will show you the way. As for your daughter and her pregnancy leave the ball in her court. All you can do is support her. For your other kids just be supportive.