My family is falling apart.....?

Question

My sister in the past couple of months has spiraled completely outta control she's dating this a*****e who has brought nothing but trouble into our lives and recently this weekend...the **** hit the fan...my mom has repeatedly told him that she doesn't want him in the house yet my sister goes against that and she brought him there when my mom found him there they got into physical fight, and said that he was going to burn down the house...guess who my sister went after?? yup HIM over our own mother...and then when I got home I saw her walking on the street with him and I got outta my car and got into a huge argument with him too...he threatened to hit me too...AGAIN my sister went after him....and didn't come home for a few days, when she did come home she said she didn't have a place to sleep & my mom took her back in... mind you my sister has a daughter of her own and doesn't even call when she leaves for all those days..

Answer 1

Wow, it sounds like your sister really needs to see the real world. First of all, if your sister back-stabs your mom and goes of with guys, you guys shouldn't die over her.

Second, if she chooses those jerks over you, than why does she want to come back to stay with you ? I just think she's gonna be stupid like this for the rest of her life !

Unless, you don't do something, becuase of her, the family is going to fall apart or things are going to get more worst than they already are !

Answer 2

I DONT HTINK AT THIS POINT THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO,UNTIL SHE DESIDES TO GET RID OF THIS LOOSER,AND I WOULDNT WORRY ABOUT HER COMING BACK FOR THE BABY CAUSE SHE WILL HAVE TO SUPPORT HIM SHE WILL HAVE NO MONEY TO SPEND ON HER BABY,,SO ALL YOU CAN DO FOR NOW IS LOVE HER BABY N IF U HAVE TO START PROCEEDINGS TO TAKE THE BABY FROM HER,,SO THIS JERK WONT B LEFT ALONE WITH THE BABY,,PEACE

Answer 3

Your sister's not stupid as was stated before me, she just makes stupid decisions. Not only that, but something's missing. I take it that you all live in a single parent home and mom's doing the best that she can?But I have to ask, did mom lay the law down in the house before your sister had her baby?

I exp. something like this kinda similar w/ my own sister. Except she ran away from home. And her reason for leaving was that my mom didn't belive her when she'd told her what had been happening(personal issue). And because my mom didn't believe her, she rebelled and started to act out at home, at school, whereever until she just finally said, forget it and never came home one day after school. She was only 17. Then when she came back, she was about 23. Now in your sister's case, maybe mom's not listening. Mom's not looking at the whole picture of why she would act out like this going after some no good dude, which can't be stand, instead of defending her family. Does she get treated differently from you? Not to sound all holier than thou, but charity starts at home and if your sister is looking for love and that's the only way she thinks she can get it(from a male), then that's where she will continue to go until something is changed and only she can make that change if mom does her part and change and try to listen to her w/o interruptions. You already know why she came back home to sleep b/c she knew that she could. It's like she's reaching out, but nobody's grabbing. Have yall ever thought about well maybe she may feel like she doesn't belong? Don't have mom talk to her, you talk to her, sometimes we're the ones who can get through to them w/o the yelling and screaming from an angry parent. And if all else fails, you may have to just let her go and raise her daughter. Eventually, she'll find her way back home. I pray it gets worked out.