My fartyy tail marriage is wobbling. Chas. is off on one again - I am off to my own house?

Question

I am sick of being called an old hag or nag. I don't mind the horse face, I like horses, but his friends are as mad as him and I am bored and want a divorce or at least a quiet arrangement so as not to embarass the firm.. What would you do? Camilla the mistress (wish I was still).

Answer 1

Awe! Hon!

All I can say is nothing lasts, forever, not even BOTOX!

And BTW! Charlie needs some!

You, my Dear, will survive!

Feck 'em all!

XOXO

Answer 2

well, a farty marriage is always gonna have a bit of wind blown up it from time to time....

Answer 3

What goes around, comes around.

East come, easy go.

Sounds like a set-up to me you disgraceful old hag and nagging horse face.

Poor old Chas.

You need a good spanking.

Answer 4

Please learn how to spell fairy tale.

Are you drunk??

Answer 5

You were right to ask for help; you have a problem.

Why do we assign qualities ( in our minds ) to people that do not really posess them just because they look good. Then when we're stuck in a day to day reality we see so clearly that we were hoping that because we love them they should care enough to at least keep pretending they have some class.

You are being verbally abused. This will only get worse and escalate the more it is allowed to continue. His yelling is his only defense because deep down he knows he is wrong but is incapable of an honest apology. You need to make drastic changes in how you approach this, what you are trying isn't working.  In the old movies the woman has a close relationship with parents and just moves home. Until he comes to his senses.  There is wisdom in this approach but it takes years for most people to change there personality

and develope a conscience..and that is after they admit they need to change and start studying it,ie consiling, 12 step meetings, self help books, anger management classes, stopping drinking.  After my seperation I did all these things at once hoping to get back together, She just wanted her new guy so after two years I went ahead and got the divorce. ( she ended staying with him for eight years before wantin me back)  One of my divorced friends that was remarried to wonderful  woman by then, told me this important story while I was going thru this turmoil.  He and his ex wife both agreed to go to a councilor.  In the counciling office  the counciler listened for a few minutes to each person  then asked  each one "Relationships are a lot of work, are you willing to try to save this one and start working at it?" He said he was willing: She said she was not even willing to try to save it. I think it saved them a lot of grief.  It is easy to say you are going to try but Camilla you will know by his actions if he is.  The sooner one of you moves out the better to see if  your love is strong enough to try to get back together.   Hope a little bit of this helps give you some idea's and insight. Of course I do not know much about your situation. If you cheated on him ( this includes stealing money ) or poisoned his favorite dog he may have a reason to be angry. But You both have to learn to forgive and quarantine your resentment if it will ever work out.

The only real apology is to not repeat the behavior.  

Wow I just read your blurb on your avatar. Is that His money your spending or his? At least you know how to cook up some rservations. You probably gittin a laugh out of my serious answer. I will leave it on in case it will help someone else.