My father had s*x with my best friend

Question

my father has been seeing my ex best friend - she is 16 and he is 57, he also has 9 kids off difdifferentrlfriends, my mum died 2 years ago and left her 7 kids behind, the youngest is 10 and he is a diabetic, he is neglecting all my brothers, if his "girlfriend" is in a mood then so is he and he hits my younger brothers because of it - iv told lots of people like adults and nobody isl listening i don't know what to do because i don't want my brothers to go into care so don't really wanna tell anyone but i don't know what to do - the are having s*x to because he admitted it and we found condoms in his room. they both have addadmittedey love each other and the boys are suffering because of it..

my dad says he will kill himself if he loses her - infin front my younger brothers. im I'm just scared please somebody help! i have nobody.

Answer 1

violence is never the answer and he should be reported to the authorities.  How can this girl still be called your best friend after what she is doing?

Do you have any other family member that is an adult that you can turn to to help get involved ?  If so then do it as you should not be on your own in this situation

Answer 2

call the police, thats all illegal and he can (and should, in my opinion) be charged with beating and neglect...i don't care about your friend, she sounds like a w***e with a fetish for old guys.

Answer 3

i am sorry, you should not come open under any circumstances. it is a family matter.  There are persons like your father and they settle things smoothly. it is best to quit home after marriage.  are you married ? if not, do it atonce and quit.  one should realise about himself or herself.  if there is no realisation about what is good nd what is bad, what can you do ? He is the person to take responsibility about his children. But, he himself not realising his responsiblity means, no use of using words, force, advice, complaint etc., you better to see your future.  

Answer 4

call the police or child line, or both, but the police is quicker. although u must have evidence

u need to tell some one and get help, do whats best, think about ur brothers well fare, please...!