My father is pushing me a lot?

Question

I am High School now. I am freshman. Like this i have a father who is pushing me a lot these days. He is just asking me do i have a girlfriend and that i should enjoy my life and focus just on my studies and girls. I just fell very uncomfortable he is asking me about girlfriends and that i should be kissing a lot and just have a lot of girlfriends.

All the men in my family are famous about be the most popular guys but i am totally the opposite. I am shy and have very little friends.

My cousin had 1000000000 of girlfriends, my father 10000000000 too and they were the most popular guys and they still are, they are very strong in fighting and very confident.

I am hanging out with the less popular guys and i am unsuccessful with girls. I told my father that he is pushing me too much but he says no and no. I am telling him that i am not ready to have girlfriends and to be popular but he refuses.

When i was little he accept that i was shy and quiet but know he don't.

I really don't know what to do!!!!

Answer 1

When I was young like you I was also shy.  I didn't date a lot but that's fine.  Not all people feel that to be successful you have to have tons of relationships.  Personally, to have one great love in life is better than many. Be true to yourself and don't be someone that you are not.  Maybe when you are with him make it obvious that you do enjoy looking at girls.  Don't worry, in time the right one will come along.

Answer 2

tell him that u rnt like him

n  its ur choice to choose who ur gunna b not his

tell him to quit buggin u honestly(dont exactly tell him that but u get my point)