My father never knew about me?

Question

I was adopted as a baby. I was talking to my mom the other day and she told me that my birth father never even knew about me! I don't know why, but this is bothering me now. I always thought that he knew. It's not like I'm going to run out and go find him, but there is a part of me that feels like he deserves to know that he has a child. Thoughts?

Answer 1

i totally agree with you i am in similiar position my mother wont tell me anything about my father she has told me he didnt want to know me when she was pregnant end of but this is bothering me i am 25 and have thought bout him for years and want to look for him but dont know where to start I THINK I HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW WHO HE IS AT LEAST and if he doesnt want anything to do with me or passed away then fine i have to live with that all i want is a chance.

Answer 2

I ACTUALLY HAD MY LITTLE GIRL WITHOUT HER FATHER KNOWING I WAS EVER EVEN PREGNANT. I HAD BEEN IN A VERY VERBALLY AND PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP AND WHEN I FOUND OUT I WAS EXPECTING, I BOLTED. THERE WAS NO WAY I WAS GOING TO LET HIM KNOW BECAUSE HE WOULD TRY TO CONTROL ME THAT WAY (THREATENING TO GET CUSTODY)ECT... I DID WHAT I THOUGHT TO BE THE VERY BEST THING FOR MY LITTLE GIRL. SHE IS NOW 4 YEARS OLD AND I PLAN TO TELL HER THE WHOLE TRUTH JUST AS SOON AS SHE IS OLD ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND.I FEEL THAT I PROTECTED HER. WHAT WAS TO STOP HIM FROM KICKING MY a*s WHEN I WAS PREGNANT? I'M CONFIDENT THAT SHE WILL UNDERSTAND

Answer 3

Simply put perhaps your mother just does not know and your bio dad has no idea your on the planet earth