(I also asked this in Singles & Dating, but I thought I'd try on the other side of this)
My boyfriend has been smoking pot since he was about fifteen I believe he said. He's now about a month away from 18. We've been dating for about four months and I originally wasn't really bothered by the fact that he smoked. In fact he smokes less now that I'm around. I initially accepted it easily and thought it was almost endearing. He told me he didn't even really like that he smoked. He enjoys it, but he doesn't at the same time, if that makes sense. I've tried it a few times but the last time was the final time because I felt like, though I was completely responsive, I felt totally disconnected from everything and I hated that. And I started to wonder why he would want that so often. And now I kind of die a little each time he tells me he's stoned or is going to go smoke with friends. I've told him how I felt about me smoking and how I'm not going to again, and he is pleased (he was worried it was going to become habitual for me). What should I do? Should I let him know how I feel now? I feel sort of fickle suddenly changing my feelings on the matter. (Especially because I just spent $136 replacing his bong! x_x But that's no matter)
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