My female cousin wants me and I dunno wtf i should do!?

Question

this is a Q 4 the guys mainly.. but any (positive) advice will be appreciated.

my female cousin has started flirtin with me and made it very clear last night that she wants 2 sleep wiv me. then l8r on that evening she came in2 my room and straddled me saying she needs to tell me something

then my bro walked in n she quickly jumped off and walked out the room with a bright red face.

if she wasn't my cousin i would have nailed it ages ago. shes soo hot.

so guys, what wud you do??

Answer 1

Under no circumstances should you do it with your cousin... no matter how hot she is. Having sexual relationships with family is called incest, which is gross as well as illegal. If you really, really want her, only go as far as making out or at the most fingering and handjobs. No penetration EVER.

Answer 2

Don't do it! Don't trade one moment of pleasure for a lifetime of shame and secrecy. It could make things really awkward in your family.

Answer 3

well im no guy but i think u should ignore her or just say that ur takin.... or u could say that ur brother wants her more then u do

answer mine please?!?!?!?!

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Answer 4

Tell your parents.

HER parents need to know before she gets pregnant.

Think ahead.WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF YOU HAD NAILED HER?

She might have gotten pregnant and then would be wanting to get married, your families would find out,things as you know it would come to a screeching halt.

Answer 5

life is all about following your spirit for the closeness of the Earth.........will sleeping with your cousin help you make the world a better place? what if people slept with their dad

Answer 6

lol are you all hillbillies

incest is wrong dont do it

who wants an inbred kid

Answer 7

thats disgusting... :S

Answer 8

Consanguinity -- close relatives having children -- can result in an increased risk of certain genetic conditions that would require two copies of abnormal or defective genes to have an abnormal offspring. The likelihood that you and a first cousin share these abnormal genes would generally be considered very high.

s*x sometimes ends in pregnancy despite taking precautions - there will be more than 3 ruined lives if this happens.

People do not marry cousins for good reason - so unless you want to risk your first child being abnormal, the poor girl having an abortion, your or her parents finding out and thinking you both disgusting, your friends ridiculing you for having s*x with close relatives or even worse - falling seriously in love and having to move away from your family so that you can be together - and never have kids - why bother just for a shag?

And don't think that's all she wants - girls always want a relationship - and that one is going - nowhere!!!!

INCEST!!!!

Answer 9

I understand your situation. When a girl straddles you like that and offers s*x it is like everything goes out the window and you can't tell right from wrong anymore. That is what a lot of people don't understand. I do not envy your position.. or do I? Well the fact remains that you will regret it if you go through with it won't you?  

Answer 10

Why don't you just tell her that she needs to remember what are is your position. And it's a cousin, right? So tell her to find another guy to flirt with

Answer 11

incest is bad news.  think about later on in the years and how awkward it will be for the two of you.  Just politely tell her that you won't sleep with a family member.

Answer 12

She needs help.  This is so wrong on so many levels.  You need to tell her to stop.  If she doesn't you need to talk with someone in your family maybe your father or mother and tell them because something is not right in her head.

Answer 13

Well, I don't think it would really work out.  If you decide to have a relationship with her, you will probably have family problems.  But, for me just the thought of doing one of my cousins is sick.  Good Luck!

Answer 14

Well, first of all, that is gross.  But since that it is your life, go ahead.  Life is all about taking risks.

Answer 15

im not a guy obviously but i knew some1 that slept with both of her cousins, i don't know i guess whatever, its still weird,

Answer 16

ok that is nasty why would you do that and your family dose not known that your your cousin went you and you do if they find out they well tell you to moive out

Answer 17

EW! DON't DO IT WITH YOUR COUSIN! SHE'S YOUR BLOOD MAN!!  

Answer 18

well,.... is she a REAL cousin or like a distant cousin? man, if you find her soo hot that means you like her and are attracted. ....

i cant believe im saying this but...

GO FOR IT!

Answer 19

h**l NO. THATS SO SICK, WHY DO YOU WANNA SLEEP WITH YOUR OWN FAMILY MEMBER?!!

Sorry, Just had to say it.

lol

Answer 20

umm no

dont

she is yer cuzin

and if somethin happens thats unexpexted like a baby

it could come out like mentally retarted and a stuff liket that

Answer 21

Tell her she's not your type.

Answer 22

You need to remind her that you are family and that it is not appropriate to have that kind of relationship. Instead, work on channelling any feelings you and she might share into a more friendship oriented relationship.  

Answer 23

Incest? Yeah, I think so. So if you did, what if something happened? My friend's step-dad has two children with his cousin, and they're both mentally challenged. It's really sad. I think that should be proof that cousins are NOT meant to sleep together.  Think of how ashamed your family would be of you. I think your parents raised you better than that.

Also, my friend was involved with her cousin. It was a huge mess, and the family ended up hating both of them and singling both of them out. They basically disowned them, and said they wanted nothing to do with either of them. It's not right, family is not meant to sleep together. I'm sorry, but that's just wrong. I hope you do the right thing. You can go out there and find an even hotter girl to sleep with where the whole family rule won't apply.

Answer 24

You situation has a lot of potential to be really fun.

Or it could be disastrous.

You already feel comfortable with each other;

and you both are physically feeling each other.

It all depends on how you look at the situation morally.

If you can do it without feeling all weird after, go for it!

It's not like she's your Sister.

It's got to be purely sexual though.

No feelings can be involved.

And of course, don't get her pregnant and don't expect the family to understand.

I say wear a condom, (unless she's going down on you), and do it somewhere where you won't get caught by your brother.

In most states, second cousins can get married, so why not have a good time?

Just keep it in perspective.

Answer 25

OMGwell, its not illegal to marry a cousin..

Answer 26

Lol ok it's normal to like people your related to and most people do at one point in their life. Just if you did do stuff with her what would your family think if they found out and it would suck. If your mom and dad found out they probably would tell everyone they know if theyre kinda gossip freaks because one way moms get there stress of is by talking about it to their friends and that might not be good if one of her friends happen to be your friends mom and she doesnt let him\ her hang out with you if you do. hope i helped. PS i actually have seen alot of these questions so your not really a freak.

Answer 27

That is a little sick man. She is family by blood which means no no. There are other hot girls out there that will make you feel good without making you feel like throwing up.

Answer 28

  Do you live in Arkansas by any chance, or West Virginia?

Answer 29

GO FOR IT. Its just s*x everything will be alright if you don't get her pregnant .  ohh an other thing you should ask your self and is how the f** you'll look at your aunts face after ******* her daughter but you'll  get over it. trust me is not that bad. lol

Answer 30

That's a no no.  Have a talk with her and tell it you are not interesting.  Tell her if she doesn't stop that, you will tell her family and your family.  Don't get yourself in trouble.  There are too many desease that you dont know.  Beside the fact that she is your cousing, you don't know with whom she had been before.  You are smart refusing to be with her.

I hope you keep away from her.  Ga

Answer 31

Let me put all this into perspective for you....

ALL around the world we classify this behavior as a TABOO...  Its morally, and culturally wrong.  Even if it were for one night, its not like you can go around telling people "proudly" that you slept with your own cousin.  Cuz if one of my friends ever told me that, then I would probably beat them up.  These feeling of yours need to diminish, or there are gonna be huge problems in your future.