My fiance's little sister keeps stealing money from me, how do i handle that?

Question

My fiances littke sister has stolen a total of about 300 dollars from me alone. I really want to ban her from my house, but i dont want to have problems with my future husband and his family. She has also stolen money from her parents, and a lot of people around me..... How do i handle this?

Answer 1

This is about boundaries. And your in-laws have an elephant sitting in their living room. They will deal with it one way or another.

She thinks you are dumb. First, you need to talk to your fiance, then you two need to have it out with her. If you know of other people with the same experience, then you need to invite them over for the confrontation... especially your parents.

I expect that she will laugh and blow you off saying that you have no proof. That is fine. Tell her parents that you are sorry, but they will have to leave that one home... they can always take her a dinner plate.

If you ever expect to have that end of the family over again, you need to have a deadbolt lock installed on your bedroom door, and another on your closet door to turn it into a safe. Your purse stays locked away while at home. Wear the key around your neck if need be.

Answer 2

PROVERBS 13:24.. stop this issue before it gets worst.. and it will if you don't stop it...

Stealing is like a cut blood vessel.. it keeps going, going, and going. Till you fix it.

Answer 3

Take her aside and talk to her about this issue. Tell her you want to trust her and that you want to think of her as your sister, but because of her thief, you don't want her around and if it continues, you will have to bring it to her brother's attention. Hopefully, this will help. If it doesn't, you might have to talk to your boyfriend's mother. Good luck!  

Answer 4

Kid nap her and bind her hands and feet and blind fold her.  Then keep her in a closet giving her water periodically for about a week.  Inform her that you know what she has been doing(stealing) and that if she doesn't stop that you will find her again and do the same thing.  That should work.  Just make sure she doesn't find out it was you kidnapping her.

Answer 5

Talk to ur fiance and his parents...they seriously need to punish her..tell them that unless there is a change in her behavior she will no longer be welcome in your home..the girl is begging for a serious spanking.

Answer 6

This needs a 'tough love' lesson. The first action you should consider is to make sure when she visit that your money and valuables are safe. Take a $20 dollar bill and make cheap copies of it. Make sure it is obvious a fake. Make a nice stack of it, write a short note and place it in the stack. Write a detail message on how disappointed your family are about her stealing and what to do when she want to borrow money.

Place on top a real $5.bill.When she comes to your house, give her the chance to steal the fake money with the real $5 dollar. It is important the money is really are fake. God bless.  

Answer 7

how old is she