My fiance blames me for a lot?

Question

I try so hard to make him happy, but it seems like something that I do always brings him down. Yesterday, I did his college assignment for his class, washed ot dishes, did his laundry for work the next day and had tea waiting for him when he walked through the door. He promised me that he would quit smoking and is secretly smoking still. He is overweight, heart problems run in his family and I think that he has already had a minor stroke because of this so, last night I found his cigarettes. There were 5 left in the pack so I threw them in the garbage (because that's what cigarettes are to me, garbage) and this morning he was so sweet to me until he got to work and found out. Now, today he is "very upset" with me. He said that I am going through his things and he doesn't like that. He is "pluralizing" the situation and making me feel really badly. I know I was probably wrong, but I don't want anything worse to happen to his health. What should I do?

Answer 1

Continue, he has to take the good with the bad just like you are with him

Answer 2

Your fiance is addicted for cigarettes ,it is very difficult to de-activate nicotine in his body ,To make him quit smoking then you need prepare for that,You need to give suggestions slowly one by one ,It is very difficult to stop smoking overnight.It taks easily 1 week To quit totally ,Be patience ,Give him a gifts like chew gums ,carrots and other chewable things to chew and to forget smoking.learn him chewing instaed of smoking.

Answer 3

Since you do all those things for you and he doesn't appreciate it, I'll be your fiancee. I won't smoke and I'll workout to stay in shape. I'm done with college, but I hate washing dishes and doing laundry.