My fiance call off the wedding , what the h**l iam going to do about telling my guest and braidmaid,

Question

My fiance call off the wedding , what the h**l iam going to do about telling my guest and braidmaid,

Answer 1

Have your maid of honor or your mother tell everyone...Tell them the true, so that they will be so worry about you and how you feel that they will not complain about any money that they lost...

Answer 2

You will not look like a d**k...to the person who wrote that. It's not you calling off the wedding, right? Sincerely call each person..no matter how big the list, and apologize. If they already made hotel or flight reservations, offer to call the places and help convince the managers to refund any deposites. All the people that are coming to the wedding love you, that's why they are coming, and they will not be angry with you for something that is beyond your control. However, I definitely would not consider taking him back if he tries after you do this. Are you sure there is nothing you can do to reconsile the relationship before you do this? If you even want to. And as far as his family and friends go, send an email to him and his parents telling them that it is their responsibility to tell that side of the party.

I'm so sorry for all you are going through. It must be a great stress. Best wishes to you and just think...it's better you found out now.

Answer 3

Tell them that u call off the wedding. That u been thinking about it and he's not good enough for u that he's not the one.

Answer 4

Bring them together and have a celebration. Be thankful it happened now. Don't freakout. He ain't worth it. Divorce is harder and much more distressing than having to tell your party that your fiance is a jerk. Enjoy life and be happy that you are FREE! Be careful.

Answer 5

I agree with Jason T :)

Answer 6

Better now rather than later. You tell your guests and bridesmaids that he called it off...it'll hurt and you'll hurt for a while, but believe me when one door closes another opens.

Answer 7

Just tell them the truth- for your guests with whom you are less acquainted, such as co-workers or family friends, compose a simple note that says, "The (date) wedding of __________ to ___________ has been indefinitely postponed."  For your close friends and bridesmaids, just tell them what happened.  These are your best friends- they'll rally around you.

If the invitations have already gone out, write a note like the one I wrote above and mail it out to everyone on your guest list.  If people contact you to find out what happened and you don't want to talk about it, just say, "If it's OK with you, I'd rather not discuss it at this time."  If anyone has already sent you a gift, just sent it back to them with a note of sincere thanks.

Answer 8

tell you family and friends in person, then have family and friends make the calls with you

Answer 9

The only thing you can do is tell them the truth. It happens more often then you think. I am sure that they will understand.

I'm sorry that your fiance called off the wedding. Hopefully in the end it will be the best thing for you.  

Answer 10

Just tell them the truth! What else can you do? When is or was the wedding? Do you have enough time to call people? We can't really answer unless we know all this.

Answer 11

First off, I'm sorry about your wedding =(

Well, traditionally, you don't tell your guests anything. But OF COURSE you tell your guests the wedding got cancelled and all that, but you don't discuss the reason WHY it got cancelled, since it's not proper wedding ettiqutte to do so.

Answer 12

oh that's too an insult on your part. i'm sorry to hear it from you and hope you can take it easily. all i can advice is to send them apology and tell them that your fiance call off the wedding, though it is very hard to express to them but we can do nothing about it if it was called off already.

Answer 13

There is no shame in being hurt, no need to lie about what happened.  MOST people will hang up the phone and say, 'better now, than later".  You did nothing wrong and have no reason to be embarrassed.  You can have your bridesmaid(s) do the calling for you, if you wish.  But, you should tell your close family and friends personally.  Take the comfort others offer to help you get through this very difficult time.

You will survive!

Answer 14

Tell them the truth.  Your fiance called off the wedding.  If they are good guests and Bridesmaids, they'll comfort you in your loss.

Also, accept my condolences.

Answer 15

All you can do is tell them.But make sure with your fiance that he really wants to call it off before you do that.Sorry about this.