My fiance is getting messages from a 17 year old girl?

Question

Ok, they knew each other while he was in high school and when he and I got together she was very upset. I found out a few months ago that she has been sending him text messages begging him to come to see her b/c she wants him to take her virginity. He told me that he has no intention of ever going to even see her because her parents hate him and he doesn't want to go to jail. There are no missing time periods, although his phone is turned off at the moment, I always know where he is and who he's with. She has resorted to sending him messages on myspace (which he ignores) I checked and he told me but it is getting really aggravating is there anything I can do to make this little girl leave me and my fiance alone? Could I call her parents and make them aware of the situation? Do I send her a message and tell her to leave him alone or I'll tell her parents? I have alot of ideas I just don't know which one to go with?

Answer 1

She's a little w***e so don't condescend to her level,talk with her parents.

Answer 2

Have your man remove his MySpace page.

He can always send a message to his real MySpace friends letting them know the new location of his space.

Keep in mind if he really wanted this child to go away he could make that happen. Part of it is he is enjoying the attention.

Maybe if you point that out in a non-judgmental way he will be a little more proactive in making sure this kid gets the real picture and realizes she doesn't have a chance with him.

Making her leave him alone is not something that lies in your realm of responsibility.

How much longer must he milk this for the benefit of his own self esteem and ego? He is doing her no favors by not being firm and leading her on.

Will he not be happy until there is a dead bunny in a pot?

PS. Patience (answerer above) is correct, thumbs up.

Answer 3

I would tell your husband that HE needs to tell her to stop and do it now. Ignoring her is one thing, why hasn't he blocked her from his myspace? That would solve that. He needs to decide what is more important, you or this girl. If the answer is you then he needs to tell her to cease all contact. If he refuses to do this, the I would think he is interested and willing so I'd leave him. You could send her a message yourself on myspace but I doubt it would go anywhere. If she is 17 she is probably immature and would just try to start a fight. Tell your fiance to change his number and block his myspace from her!

Answer 4

you tell her to leave him alone if he wont  

Answer 5

mind your own business, he's a grown man he'll do w/e the h**l he wants. don't go over to the girl's house don't send her messages dont talk to her parents just leave him and her alone. let him have his privacy

Answer 6

tell her she needs to find someone her age and leave ur man alone tell her straight up and let her know that if she keeps sending him messages she gonna have an answer from u and it aint gonna be no text, if her parents know she is texting him then that isnt gonna do any good to tell them but let her *** know tricks are for kids and u will bunny hop her behind for real if she keep texting ur man, there u go best answer