My fiance is turning 21, I want to throw him a surprise party. What should I do?

Question

We aren't really big on the whole drinking thing... but I want it to be fun for him and his friends. Any suggestions on what I should do?

Answer 1

strippers!

Answer 2

Do a poker theme.....have the ladies dress up as cocktail waitress's, and the guys dress nice. A friend of mine did that, it was so much fun. A local party store should have things for this theme...such as cards, poker chips....ect.

Answer 3

If you really want him to be surprised throw him a pretend party before the real party. I know that sounds like a lot of work, but it's not. I'm a very hard person to surprise or keep anything from and this worked on me. All you need is a few of his closest friends to participate... you dont want to have friends he rarely sees at his pre-surprise party or he might suspect something... Get a little cake and have a little celebration, sing happy birthday etc... Then tell him for his bday you all decided to take him out somewhere and then take him to the place where you'll have EVERYONE waiting to surprise him. It would be awesome!!

Answer 4

strippers and alot of alcohol and shout 'supprise'

Answer 5

if he is smart you can have a wedding invatation sent to your house with all the info for his party like time, date, place. You will have to do all the planning behind his back but thats pretty nice

Answer 6

Bang him like a conga drum

Answer 7

call all of his friends! find out what his favorite place to go is and get everyone to meet yall there.

tell him u want to take him somewhere special for his b-day and let him get suprised!!

Answer 8

Well invite all his friends and collaborate with them on party ideas. Put all your heads together and you all can come up with the best answer. You all know him better than we do and you all can answer this question better than us.

Answer 9

Break up with him. "Surprise!"

Answer 10

Well, since you guys arnt the pparty type,he might just like the night out with just you and him at an expensive restraunt...maybe you guys can do something afterwords to......:-{)

Answer 11

You could get a restaurant to come and do it... or you can just buy a few packs of beer, or some wine or something and get some chips and snacks like that. Then you can rent movies or something, play music and do stuff like that. If you have a pool table, people like to play that. Get a cake or something with something funny written on it like, "Over the hill..." as a joke or something!

Answer 12

Try a comedy club!!  I'd call and check on the age requirements though since some of his (your) friends might not be old enough.  

Otherwise, maybe host a murder-mystery dinner at your place.

Answer 13

get a whole bunch of shot glasses and fill them with water. water party!!! whoot whooot!!!!

Answer 14

my 19 year old cousin had a scavengur hunt and there was a stuffed cheeta with a teddy on and a not taped to its thing,and a blow up cow with grease up its @$$ and a clue inside

Answer 15

First, figure out a theme. Then once you have found that, go crazy with it! There are all sorts of different punches (alcoholic and non alcoholic) that can be made. Also, the food menu is easier once there is a theme too. Also, there are lots of ways to save money doing it. Don't think that the more you spend the better the party, not true. Partys are fun to put together, just remember that and have fun with it:)

good Luck!

Answer 16

talk to his mates they known him better

Answer 17

yeah asking his and your friends might be the best idea.