My fiance is working out a lot latley, im worried that he may be up to someting else, help

Question

I commend anyone who wants to get their body in shape, but when he first started his workout regimen he used to invite me too but now he is just on this "workout" binge that is just ridiculous to say the least, Everyday he plans to "workout" when its not convinient for me too.It just seem like he is using an excuse to workout at any time in the day or night, he wants to run, then he wants to go to the gym all while im w/ the children, im physically fit too and we do have acess to daycare for our children, why would he all of a sudden feel that i dont want or need to work out, should i pop up on him one day at the gym? what should i do, my female intuition is telling me somthing just isnt right w/ this picture, i dont want to assume then become an ***, but i do want to know if im being played and im sure some of you ladies can relate, please tell me how i can catch him in the act or maybe not!!

Answer 1

Well from experience usually when a guy gets into his workout mode they become obsessed with it.  I say this because my husband went through this before we were even dating, and my brothers go through it all the time.  I have seen them do this when they were not dating anyone.  My husband is just starting to get back into it where he wont eat anything unless it is on his high protein diet.  He works out at home so he does not leave or anything to work out.  I think it is just a guy thing.  I would not say that he is necessarily cheating on you.  However if you think he is then just show up at the gym and see if he is there.  I would think he just wants to look good for the wedding.

Answer 2

I am really in to working out as well and i did the same thing invited my wife at first then kinda didn't want her to come. The reason is its our alone time as well we honestly don't want to try and keep track of any one or any thing its kinda our retreat from home and family. It makes us feel good also makes us feel distressed. If you are worried about whats going on just pop up one day i bet you, he will be working out just kinda in his own mind. Also i find working out allows me to think about things that in a normal situation or enviorment i find me self over tasked and can't think. The main thing is do you trust your husband?  

Answer 3

Have you talked to him yet? Are there any other signs? I'd say, go to the gym when he says he's going and jsut drop the kids off at daycare. Have some excuse for going at the same time and just have your mind ready for whatever you find out.

Answer 4

if your female intuition is telling you something isn't right, then something probably isn't. i had that feeling a lot when i was with my ex and it turns out he was cheating. on the other hand though, there are many people who are addicted/obsessed with working out. my brother goes everyday for like 2 hours! (he's crazy! lol) i think you should just ask him what's going on. if he doesn't give you the truth or just shrugs it off as if you're being nosy, then you should pop up at the gym to see if he's there with someone else, or if he's REALLY there.

Good Luck! <3

Answer 5

Trust you gut! If you don't want to look like an *** then don't call him on it, find out for yourself first. Is he wearing new underwear? Wearing cologne to the gym? I say tell him you think you need to hit the gym wait for him to not invite you along than the next day pop in on him and when you decide you are ready for him to spot you tell him I said I needed to hit the gym remember I just had some time so I didn't think you would mind. That is what I would do! Because lets be honest men can not tell the truth if they think they will get in trouble!

Answer 6

he's cheating

Answer 7

you should show up while he's working out, but don't make it look like you're spying. if there is someone else there, don't blow up, just ask him what's up. the key here is to be calm about it.

Answer 8

suggest to him u want to work out with him some days u know just the 2 of u. as a woman i would pop up at the gym if i was suspicious u can never know.my curiousity will drive me insane if i don't find out. u don't have to be obvious about checkin on him. better to find out now.good luck.

Answer 9

HINT: Follow this person.

Answer 10

you need to stalk him a little.