My fiance thinks he is the only one that has a say with our baby, am i wrong for thinking he is wrong?

Question

he tells me that nobody will hold the baby except for me and him and my mom and his mom. which i thinks that is wrong because my best friend is the godmomma. and he tells me what to do and that im gonna hurt the baby! i know what i am doing i have been pregnant before. how can i get him to understand without being mean to him?

Answer 1

He's wrong, you have complete say in who holds her. In fact, you have far more say than he does. YOU are the baby's momma!  

Are you sure you want to marry this guy? Sounds a but, er, controlling....

Answer 2

maybe you have to be mean, he seems to only see one point of view and that is his own, sometimes when something mean is said it gives a person a chance to look at what others have to say then.

Answer 3

dude sounds like a control freak.

for heaven's sake, don't marry him unless that changes, or it will just get worse!!

btw, you have a say, too. if he can't see that, *THAT* is a BIG problem!!