My fiance told me that he keeps having dreams that i was cheating, what does this mean??

Question

He woke up this morning and just stared at me and i asked him what was wrong he explained that he is irritated that he keeps having dreams of me cheating on him...I am completely faithful to my fiance, we have 3 children, i work full time and im always at home w/ my family. what is going on? i told him that i would be stupid to cheat on him as there is no reason for me to do so, he is a good man to me and our children, he's a great provider and a loving person. I told him that i am sorry he is having those dreams but advised him not to get angry over a dream. It makes me feel uncomfortable on the inside knowing he is having these terible dreams when i know im innocent. does anyone know what these type of dreams result in? or what they mean??

Answer 1

Ask him what is happening in his life that he has not told you.  He is having guilt feelings on some of his own actions.  

Answer 2

This is my true story. My wife always had a same dream that I cheat on her with a long hair girl. What actually was she saw me IM to this girl and that girl, how do I fix it? I let her see who I am IM with and what we IM about and then all the bad dreams were gone and we are happy married for 5 years and with 2 great kids.

I can only suggest you try to think of something that might be normal to you and that makes him overreact and misunderstanding. talk it out because it hurts your relationship. best wishes.  

Answer 3

He might be feeling like you are not satisfied or happy with him deep down inside.  It may be time for u two to rekindle the relationship by taking sometime for yourselves. The two of u may be craving it and have not fully realized it yet.  So have a date night without the kids at a restaurant and/or movies, outdoor concert, indoor concert and get the love flowing again.  It's just time for some work on love that's all so get to it.  Best of luck!!

Answer 4

His dreams could mean he is feeling that he cant trust you. Maybe he does but maybe the inside of him doesn't trust you. Like his concience doesn't trust you. I'm sure he doesn't mean to make it seem as though you are feeling unfaithful. Maybe if you too can talk over a nice dinner or so.If you can get the time. I hope he doesn't continue to be angry with you.