My fiance wants to chat?

Question

so i just found out my fiance is a member on a LOCAL single/married/swingers chat room. his profile states that he is attached seeking women and his limits are "undecided". does anyone else think this is wrong? i am currently pregnant with our second child. He did this same kind of thing when I was prego the first time and swore he was a "changed man".

Answer 1

yes that is wrong..... "A zebra never loses their stripes"

Answer 2

Well dont get an abbortion because that's like killling a baby, but don't get pregnaut  excuse me if I miss spelled it. Check him out keep an eye on him before having a third child.

Answer 3

On one hand he may just be "pretending" as your being prego and having your second he feels he's not no.1 anymore and just wants a "fantasy" life.  On the other hand he could be feeling he's fed up with his current situation and is seriously considering wanting a threesome.  He won't change if this is his fantasy, just make sure it goes no farther then this and insure he has no reason to look elsewhere....I wouldn't do the threesome thing though unless that's your fantasy too?

Answer 4

does sound a bit wrong but you won't really understand why he's on that site unless you talk to him :S

good luck

nicole

x

Answer 5

Oh my God! I'm sorry but I would eb SO out of there! You are having unprotected s*x with this man...even if he uses condoms he is still putting you at serous risk! Get out of there.

Answer 6

try catching him in the act by asking a friend you can trust to pose as someone and see how far he will take it. if he's done it before, im pretty sure he's ognna do it again.

Answer 7

it's so wrong

i think you should break it off with him, he won't be a good influence for the kids.

yea he could've been cheating on you and you might have an std. get your self to a doctor's office.

Answer 8

Obviously, if he's done this the first time and is doing it again, he's not a changed man at all, and doesn't respect you or your relationship to even try to quit.

Answer 9

make you one and show him how it feels and on your limits but none

Answer 10

That's kind of odd, I would personally set up an account as someone else and talk to him, and see how he responds. It MIGHT just be that he's just interested in meeting new people, or that inner bachelor in him dying, and just wanting to harmlessly flirt with someone.

Answer 11

Get rid of him. He's never gonna change. Been there, done that!

Answer 12

u know wot to do he has not changed

Answer 13

make him delete his profile its definitely cheating especially since ur pregnant and its the 2nd time it happened u should confront him and tell him how u feel about it OR threaten him and say ull divorce him if hes talking to other women lol

Answer 14

i guess he does because he made a profile.

Answer 15

Yeah it is wrong

Answer 16

You don't want that life, its a looser. Have a long talk with him and let him know it's gotta go. If it doesn't it's going to tear y'all up any way. I have seen to many of my friends over the years with good marriages that went to h**l because of that life style.

Answer 17

He is not trustworthy. And considering that this is a pattern with him. I would not marry this man. He has an addiction! He needs to stop. However I don't believe that he can or wants to. I hope for your children's sake that he doesn't act on this chatting with other women and go out and start having s*x. I would kick him out, What he is doing is wrong. He is hurting you and his children. He is selfish. I would go in front of a judge and have him pay you child support. I would not continue too Live with this man. Sooner or later he is going to act on his chatting and be out s******g other women. I would be careful he could give you something like an STD or even HIV! I would kick him out now!

As you said before this is not the first time. Nor is it the last!

Answer 18

It depends on if you trust him or not. Have there been any times when you think he may have cheated on you, or does he keep this as a friendship.

Answer 19

yes that is wrong, he shouldent be on websites like that at all, confront him about it. good luck :)

Answer 20

It is totally NOT alright! I honestly think he is a waste of time and his behavior is inexcusable. You deserve to be his no.1, simple as... I really feel so bad for you! Dont know if you have told him you know again but if you havent you could always get one of your friends or even yourself to catch him out by joining the site too and then see how sleazy he really is! Good luck girl and remember you deserve better! And think hard about what  your advice  would be to one of your friends if they were in similar circumstances?