My fiance wont have s*x with me!! ?

Question

My fiance told me this morning that the reason why we dont have s*x is because my weight puts him off...

What do i do?

Answer 1

leave him that is a really stupid reason if he didnt like your weight he shouldnt have asked you to marry him  

Answer 2

lose weight or just wait and then he will be on you

Answer 3

maybe you need to rethink the type of guy you are about to marry:)

he is supposed to love you and accept you for who you are no matter what:)

or if you want to appease him you can loose weight, but that is something you need to do because you want to do it and not just for him:)

Answer 4

At least  you found out he was an *** before you got married...if you marry him you cannot whine when he treats you like c**p if you do not lose weight.

Answer 5

Honey you need to find a REAL man and let the scared little boy go because it is clear to me he is beginning to break your delicate heart.

Answer 6

find another guy. Weight or not- sounds like you guys are pretty far down the road for this to be an issue now...

Answer 7

he obviously doesn't love you for who you are, you better get rid of him now before its too late!! if he is like this to you now, imagine how mean he will be in 30 years!! he sounds like a complete a*****e.  

Answer 8

that was insulting.

Answer 9

Try losing weight, and then see what he says. but Why would he be marring you if he wont have s*x with you because of your weight? that shouldn't matter to him if his marring you though. I hope i helped! Good luck!

Answer 10

How much does he weigh, subtract that from your life and you will be much happier.  Why even marry a person who dislike you because you gained weight?  What will happen if your hair falls out, you lose a finger or have kids and gain weight.  What he should have done was say, honey let's join a gym and work out together - not stop loving you and giving you affection because you gained weight --- the decision is yours -- I would never marry such a person.  

Answer 11

Do not marry this man. If he hasn't cheated on you yet, he will. He also sounds like an insensitive jerk. You are worth more - do not let this guy destroy your self-confidence. Marriage is forever; you don't want to be stuck with someone who belittles you.

Answer 12

You're NOT SUPPOSED to be fooling around before you're married. You should be thanking him instead.  Have some respect for yourself, your future husband, your future children and last but not least GOD.  And then people like yourself later on come on here and complain complain complain......you choose your life's path with your eyes wide open. It's time you start using some wisdom. Wake up.

Answer 13

loose weight or loose him.but honestly he sounds liek a  jerk.get lingerie,try and turn him on.

i honeslt woudl never  suggest this,but give him he*d.maybe that will do the trick,and he will return the favor.

Answer 14

dont marry him unless he has s*x with you

Answer 15

Dump him.  Seriously.  If he's not attracted to you and he's rude to you about it, why is he marrying you?  What kind of relationship will you have if he's not interested in s*x?  He'll get frustrated and start cheating on you.  

I think you should save yourself heartache later and get rid of him.  Find someone who loves you for yourself, doesn't try to change you, and is totally attracted to you.  You deserve better than that.

Answer 16

Be proactive with your weight loss if it's really an issue to you.  Make sure that he is not making a big deal of nothing.  But if you are overweight, even if he was rude about it...maybe it would be best to start small little exercises and such to keep yourself healthy in general.  This is not just for him, but more for bettering yourself in the long run.  Bring him along with you if you want to enjoy the exercise/time together.  

Answer 17

2 things.1st...EWWW!!IM 11 I DON'T LIKE THOSE WORDS!!2nd...go 2 a wedding counselor or someone who can work it out between you 2

Answer 18

:-O

A - Lose weight... OR

B - Dump him! If he can't accept you for who you are, then how will your married s*x life be?  

Answer 19

Lose weight.  Why can't you get it?

Answer 20

well, why is  he your fiance then?  IF he isn't giving you s*x now then he won't when you are married.  I would question whether he even wanted to marry me seeings how the weight puts him off.  

Answer 21

Ok for this forget the s*x part! If he doesn't respect you because your not his perfect weight then what dose he respect and love you for? If he's going to marry you and love you forever will he ignore you if you get big and pregnant!? He's supposed to love you for you! Not your weight!

Answer 22

Alright heres the real deal,sister is that someone you really want to marry you chances are his fat *** will put on weight after the marriage and who is to say youll wanna sleep with him? he should love you for you i would cancle the wedding something like this is just a red flag for things to start rollin down hill i dont mean to be so upfront but really its a i wanna break up with you it would matter if you hair didnt look good that day its just kind of a nice way of putting it. When in love you accept the person for how they are through all the changes that may come in that matter. god bless.

Answer 23

dump him...if he isn''t capable of accepting you the way you are then he is not the one for you.

Don't listen to anyone who tells you anything other then "get rid of this guy"   Losing weight is something you should choose or not choose according to your own feelings...it should have absolutely nothing to do with any other person what so ever.  Good Luck...I know it will probably be hard to break things off with your fiance...but it is what you have to do.

Answer 24

blows, he asked you to marry him, and he knew you were big rite?? so i guess lose weight. tell him he should help motivate you and really care about it.

Answer 25

lose weight

Answer 26

well shannon, you have 3 choices. 1. lose weight. 2, cheat on him. 3. and this is depending on what type of personality you have, because it's not for everybody. but you can tell him he can love you for who you are of he can go f*** himself.

Answer 27

ummm, try losing weight!!!! I dont mean to be mean but, DUH!!!

Answer 28

Think of it from your perspective. If he was gaining weight, wouldn't you find it hard to be attracted to him still? Now, if you haven't gained very much weight or its not that noticable, then you two really need to talk it out and figure out what he's really thinking - like another woman, perhaps? Sometimes men use excuses like that when they're cheating or having other issues.

I suggest you sit down with him and tell him that you're really worried and you want to solve your issues in the bedroom. Find out ALL that he's thinking and really talk it out. Don't yell, argue, and try not to get too upset. Crying really puts a guy off even more. Communication is an important thing and the two of you clearly didn't figure out all of your issues when it was just left at that.  

Answer 29

lose weight? if yo cant deal with it you should find someone else. you have to love yourself before you love someone else so if you dont want to change you have to move on osrry

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Answer 30

Why is he marrying you if he is not attracted to you? Maybe you shouldn't get married. Also, perhaps you should start exercising and eating healthy.  

Answer 31

Absolutely do not marry this idiot!!!!