My fiancee is 10 inches...?????

Question

What do i do? How do i prepare? Im a virgin. I know the whole "this has got to be something you want to do" bit. Im planning to lose my virginity to him on my wedding night. But Im alittle scared. He says he'll be gentle and go slow, and i believe him, but im still alittle worried...NO mean/unhelpful comments/answers. Thanx. :]

Answer 1

there is no real preparation that can be done unless it's from his side,he needs to make you feel comfortable and go slowly. may I even suggest some oral foreplay just to set the mood. good luck and most important have fun.

Answer 2

Go slow, make sure he's being gentle, use lots of lubrication, and don't expect the whole 10 inches to fit.  Hope this helps.

Answer 3

I would be surprised if he's really that big...but if he is...good luck

Answer 4

OW.

Answer 5

You don't have to worry, that particular part of our body is designed to give birth, and a baby is way much bigger than 10 inches. On that night, if you are still worried, you should tell him how you feel and he should give you the assurance you need. And always be honest to each other so nothing will go wrong.

Other than that, have fun!

:)

Answer 6

Congratulations on waiting til your wedding night.I am doing the same.You obviously trust him,he will go slow,and be gentle and you will feel some discomfort.Just relax your muscles and don't tense them up too much "down there",because that resists or pushes against him inserting it.Use alot of lubricant,the more the better and the smoother things will go.(Make sure the lubricant you choose is water based,NOT oil based).

Answer 7

just be sure to use lots of lube and TELL HIM HOW U FEEL.  if u dont do that, it will hurt and he wont know!!! god luck:]

Answer 8

ur a lucky girl

Answer 9

Not that I have personal experience, but I don't think all 10 inches is going to fit inside you if that's what you're worried about

Answer 10

try having him fingure you before you have s*x. it will help you know a little bit about whats coming. as long as hegoes slow and is gentle it will be fine. im not going to lie it will hurt. but only for the first few minutes then after that you wont feel that much and it wont hurt mainly at all it will just feel awkward/ diffrent/ weird.

Answer 11

see, this is why a vow of cellebacy is wrong!!

Ok heres a step by step

1. Make sure you have plenty of lubrication, you can get it from the pharmacy

2. Make sure your in the mood, i mean the sexual mood, because your v****a will widen easier, masturbating a bit before hand if good for the both of you, its called foreplay

3. make sure he goes REALLY SLOW i mean when he 'inserts'.

ok unfortuneately the rest is up to you guys, so i hope you have fun!!

Answer 12

tell him not to go in as far or you get on top so you can control how far you want him in.

Answer 13

Make sure you are ready, a lot of foreplay will help you to lubricate, i would also recommend using additional lubricant as well. Just go slow and gentle and make sure you are telling him how you feel. Its going to hurt but just keep practicing, eventually you guys will make it work. The first time is always a bit awkward...