My fiancee jumped all over me because of McDonald's is my anger justified?

Question

hello I want to know if my anger is justified my Fiancee and I pulled up into the drvethru at McDonald's and I wanted breakfast my fiancee commented that she wanted breakfast but lunch was ok to. well they stop serving breakfast at 10:30 it being 10:34 I asked the drivethru if they could still do breakfast she checked and said yes if it was not a lot of food so I placed my order and my fiancee told me what she wanted I miss heard her and accidentally ordered a diet coke well I told the drive thru to add her soda and I just took the diet coke. The SECOND we pull up she starts yelling at me because I just had to push it (I asked the drive thru clerk extra nice cause I did not want her to tell me no actually) and now we are going to get nasty food and we cant do anything about it cause they are making an exception for us when they served us breakfast when they "weren't supposed to" she also said I don't listen to her because she wanted lunch and not breakfast and I messed up her soda now yesterday we get into a spat because she feels we don't go out anymore so previous to this I get her an appointment to go get a pedicure (While I help my brother put up a retaining wall and was going to call it quits when her pedicure ended) and have our whole day planned so we can go on a date and do her favorite things I pull out of the drivethru and park and tell her to go and get what she wants and she wont no im royally pissed off because she chewed my butt really badly over a ten doller meal is my anger justified or am I blowing this out of proportion

Answer 1

Life is far too short to sweat the small stuff.

Let it roll off you and move on. You're blowing it all to h**l.

Answer 2

Your fiancee a bit touchy and kind of sounds like she was looking for a fight.  She is obviously stressed about something and is lashing out at you.  Look at the big picture.  There is no reason to get really angry about a McDonald's meal.  Her getting so upset about you ordering the wrong drink and getting breakfast instead of lunch isn't about the food at all, it's about her feeling like the two of you aren't connecting.

Don't carry this anger on any longer.  It's a silly fight even though it does sound like she was the one out of line.  Remember why she is your fiancee in the first place, cut her some slack and get to the bottom of why she's upset.

Good luck!  

Answer 3

I'm going to echo what the others said. I think you've got bigger issues than maccas here honey.

Could be anything to major issues to her being hormonal...

I'd suggest sitting down and talking about it. You really don't need any skeletons coming out of the closet when you're married.

Good luck. x

Answer 4

it wasn't the mcdonalds

that freak out sounds like it had been building up with its "you don't listen to me" along with the previous day's "you never take me out anymore"

how soon is your wedding?

maybe she thinks that you are getting cold feet and pushing her away and even if you're not, that may be a hint that maybe she's getting cold feet and this freak out could be because she's looking at your relationship and thinking about how that is what her life will be like forever

do her statements have any sort of validity? because you should continue to woo her even if you do already have the "fish in the boat"(as my fiance puts it)

Answer 5

Sounds like your fiancee is a bit to high matinence for ANY man, let alone a nice man like you. Tell her to chill out. I think your anger is 100% justified!

Answer 6

I feel like maybe your girlfriend might have an underlying problem with you and was using the Mcdonalds fiasco as a vent for her frustration, maybe you to need to sit down and talk things out about your relationship together.

Answer 7

i dont really understand the situation, but i can tell you from experiance that for some reason the engagement is just a really stressful time no matter who you are. maybe there is some underlying problem your finacee hasnt talked to you about, maybe she is just getting nervous or is worried about something, or who knows, you have to TALK!! Ask her what you can do to help her out, and in a nice way mention how you feel, you guys ARE getting married, you might as well learn now how to deal with stuff yourselves, just the two of you.

Answer 8

You're being petty.