My fiend is 13 and pregnant and dosent know what to do?

Question

her and her bf are both 13 and her bf will definetly stand by her

but her parents dont even know they are going out

she is about 4 months gone and thinks it is too late to have an abortionso she dosent know what to do

what should she do?

plz answer

Answer 1

She should tell her parents now otherwise she will be in great trouble in next few month, because she needs care at this period.

Answer 2

Tell Her Parents!

Answer 3

She needs to see a dr for prenatal care! She needs prenatal vitamins! She needs to tell her parents! Why on earth are 13yr olds having s*x? ugggh!

Answer 4

she should stop having s*x!

She needs to bite the bullet and tell her parents.

Even though he may say so, her boyfriend won't stand by her, she is too young.

Answer 5

Sweety, her bf will stand by her because he's only 13 and it's not like he's really going to have the responsibility of fatherhood the way he would if he were even 3-4 years older. Usually that young, the parents will take care of the child anways. And what can your friend do? She has to tell her parents. She can't hide it forever. And the sooner her parents know the sooner everything can get figured out. And she doesn't have to keep the child herself. It's called adoption. But like I said, first things first is to tell the parents. They'll be mad, probably eratic when they're told, but they'll eventually move on and figure things out. But, sucky for her that she even got in this situation.

Answer 6

why does everyone have to say "why are 13 year olds blah blah blah.." who cares?????????? 13 is really not that young despite what everyone thinks. they can do it if they want to. and its already done, its not like now when you say "they should not have done that" it will be taken away so GET OVER IT!

she should tell her parents. that will be the hardest thing she has to do. apart from when she has the baby i mean...

Answer 7

ok first of all you should not be asking 4 her and its not us she should be ascking its her parent its her problem not yours dont get feaked out becouse she is sleeping around with her boyfriend there consequences for love my friend was 14 wen she got pregnant and there was nothing i could do soo yea and guys may say they stand by u but from experience they are lieing

Answer 8

I would tell her to tell the parents, go the stricter one first so its out of the way and she can tell the parents that she is pregnant and its too late, nothing can be done and don't argue as it's not fair for the stressed to go on the baby, but the parents would be very upsetting as only 13 years old, and parents will have to be there for you no matter what but if they won;t and going really mean about this situation she could stay at yours till the parents calm down and eventally will sort out at the end. Also need to go to doctor to get some help for her body as its still delovopled.  

Answer 9

firstly - tell her parents even if she doesn't !!!! what does she think will happen at 9 months when she goes into labour ??? if she doens't tell them - you should or even get your parents to tell hers. if it's not done now she could be in some serious phsical trouble !!!!

Answer 10

Everybody has a right to come on here to ask questions about pregnancy and that includes 13 year olds!! We're all here to help not criticize!!

I was 17 when i fell pregnant and my boyfriend still standing by me!! That's a completely wrong thing to say just because their 13!! I got with my boyfriend when i was 14 and we now have a beautiful baby girl together and are happier than we've ever been!!...

It is not too late to have an abortion the limit is 6 months (24 weeks) But having an abortion at this stage would not be fair at all as the baby is so developed at this stage (the baby gets a heartbeat after 25 days of conception!!) the baby will be very formed at 4 months...

In my opinion she should give things a go with her boyfriend and tell her GP as soon as possible so she can get the care that her and her baby needs...And another important one she will need to sit her parents down and tell them so they can support her too...

Good Luck to your friend (dont be ashamed there are lots of other girls your age and younger pregnant these days i dont know why people criticize its not helping...)

Answer 11

She needs to tell her parents so that she can get prenatal care. There's a baby that needs taking care of!

Answer 12

if she is 4 months in how have her parents not noticed?

either way it is very essential for her parents to know for the safety of her and the baby!

i know it will be extremely difficult to own up to it but it needs to be done

and i suggest the boyfriend not be with her when she tells them though

but she does need to let them know who got her pregnant

i dont have any personal experience myself though i understand it will be an extremely difficult task i wish your friend the best of luck!

Answer 13

nah its not too late to have an abortion you can have an abortion at 24 weeks and she is only about 16 weeks?

Answer 14

first of all no her bf will not stand by her. thats a guarentee. she has no choice but to tell her parents at this point. she did it to herself

neffi32- yes 13 is very young. i'm 22, college degree, full time job and my own home and am not ready to be a mother yet and i can promise you a 13 year old is not even ready to take care of herself let alone a baby