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My first day of high school???

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im kinda nervous. i have a really unique style and in middle school everyone loved my clothes but my taste is different than most teenagers so i dont want people to think i dress weird. i also have a big crush on this guy and dont even know if i have any classes with him ore how to show him i like him! most of all i dont wanna be just "stupid freshman" and i also dont wanna get on peoples bad sides because i dont take any c**p from the upperclassmen. so nervous! hellp me!!!

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  1. 1. Take a deep breath. You shouldn't be so nervous, you're just going to a new school. Remember that in your new school you will find kids your age. You're going to meet people like you there. Don't stare at others before you get to know them.

    2. Be yourself! Never change who you are to try and fit in. If your friends don't accept you for you, they're not really friends.

    3. Be hygienic. Nothing makes a worse first impression than a whiff of B.O. or bad breath that could knock someone over. Shower daily, wear deodorant, brush your teeth, and wash your hair . Designer clothes aren't everything, but look neat. It can make you seem friendlier and more approachable.

    4. Be inviting. A smile goes a long way. When you walk in the halls, don't hunch over your books or keep your eyes on the floor. Stick your chin up and make eye contact with other people. If you see someone you know, give a smile or say hi. Introduce yourself. Tell them your name and where you're from. Ask a question: "What do you do for fun?" Chat about the new school. Let your guard down, and be approachable!

    5. Make the first move. Anywhere, in the bathroom, near your locker, or at the water fountain, you can find someone that has things in common with you, all you need is to know how to approach them. Strike up a conversation, smile and compliment them, and, of course, introduce yourself and tell them where you came from! You never know where you can find a nice friend.

    6. Do something nice for someone. Save someone a seat. Say "hi" in the hall. Give congratulations for a job well done. Pay a compliment: "I like your backpack."

    7. Join more after school activities you like. Choir or theater or hang around for a French club meeting, etc. Even if you don't know anyone there, you'll all share a common interest, and you can experience with different personalities from yours that have the same interest!

    8. Look out for others in your grade. You're probably not the only one and at the very least, you'll have one thing in common: you're both in an unfamiliar environment. The good news is, if you are starting at a new school in startup year, almost everyone is new! Since being new is something that you all have in common, making new friends shouldn't be that hard. Talk about your old school, your new school, your opinions, grades, teachers, etc.

    9. Don't sit at the back of the class where other people dont notice you! Try to sit in the middle where your around everyone and can make conversation.

    10. Be confident, smile, HAVE FUN! =)


  2. dont worry about your clothes

    just chill with your friends or the people you know for the first few weeks of high school. Soon you'll start getting along with people. And im sure you'll find someone your type. Just dont mind others business and you'll be ok. And be friendly towards others.

  3. unique is the way to go,but remember that confidence is key,whether you wear a designer cloth or a big trash bag as long as you're confident and comfortable in it,every thing will be just fine.

    first days are always nerve racking,so relax..........and.....umm....about the guy,wait for it,until you get a chance to meet him some how,may be a party,or a class or something and talk to him casually and then move on,meet other people,don't be to clingy or you'll freek him out so ignore him a little bit,he'll come around.

    good luck

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