My first love now likes me what should i do???

Question

ok so about 3 years ago i met my first love. i wasn't very old at all. i know it was just kind of a kid love but none the less. a year ago he kissed me at a 4th of july party. i was head over heels in love with him at that point. we kinda lost touch after that. he got back together with his girlfriend. we still talked but not a lot. we could have tried to make it work but neither of us had our license. it's not like we lived in the same town cause we didn't. but for the longest time i tried to get him to tell me how he really felt. i've finally started to accept that we'll probably only be friends, and the other night i was IMing him and he told me that he really did like me. and was sorry for anything he ever did to me. and that he missed me. well this creates a problem for me now. as much as i'd like to see if it would work. i currently have an amazing boyfriend that i love. i still have feelings for my first love and i don't think they're ever going to go away but i don't know if i could ever take that chance and leave my current boyfriend. i'm just so confused with what to do with my first love finally admitting that he likes me and misses me and wants to try to make it work. i don't want to make him think that i don't want anything to do with him by telling him that i can't try cause i want to know what would have happened if we tried to make it work. i just don't know. i need help to figure it out before i do something drastic and regret it later.

thanks,

confused

Answer 1

good luck  

Answer 2

if your heart tells you that you like him then go for it, if your don't have any feeling then don't

Answer 3

Do you think it will be worth it to dump your current boyf to get with this guy who kissed you and then got back with his ex?

Sometimes the grass is not greener on the other side.

BUT on the flip, if you DO think it's worth it, go for it. Life is too short.

Answer 4

Do what you think is right :) Let your heart decide :)

Answer 5

be happy

Answer 6

..... better talk to him and explain.

Answer 7

I'd tell him, "Sorry, too little, too late."

If you are in love with your current boyfriend, don't s***w it up.

I still talk to my first love and I will always care for him, but I don't love him anymore.

Answer 8

go for it..he is ur first love anyway..here's ur chance..and besides...u dont want to regret in the end

Answer 9

You can't listen to your heart.  You have to listen to your head.  If it makes sense to stick with the guy you are seeing than stay.  If you are meant to be with your first love it will happen.  But, right now it's not right.  Good luck!!