My four yr old daughter is so naughty!?

Question

shes just so naughty she draws everywere and ruins her toys when she makes a mess she refuses to clean up after herself she hits me and scratches me she crys all the time and she has so much anger in her i am depressed so im prob not helping her in any way we have moved twice in 3mnths and her father is in prison and my partner works so he cnt help i just dont know how much more i can take .she also has started weeing it started only at school then she went to doing it at home then she stoped then she started again im so confused i sumtimes wonder if its because of my depression that shes like this i just dont know????? am i to blame i wonder??

Answer 1

here's a question.  Have you ever read a single book on parenting?  It baffles me that people expect to just be good parents without spending a single second trying to learn how to be a good parent.

Answer 2

Your statement gives a lots of factors that might explain why your daughter is difficult: moving twice within a short time, having her father in prison, and your own problems. She needs a lot of love and much of your quality time, but she also needs a firm hand, both figuratively (tell her what she is allowed to do and what is not acceptable, in clear terms) and literally (spank her when she wilfully breaks the rules). When she dwars on the walls or ruins her toys pull down her pants and spank her bottom, then make her clean up the mess together with you. Just be consistent and let her know that you love her even though you dislike things she does. This will get better eventualy. Best of luck!

Answer 3

Are any of the people who threw around the ADHD diagnosis qualified to do so? I'm going to assume her teacher isn't an MD, nor are the family members who have suggested it. Take her to your GP and try to get a referral to a pediatric psych specialist.

Also, please don't procreate anymore.

Answer 4

You could be adding to your daughters problem. Seek help and than go to counseling with your daughter too.

Answer 5

Get help for yourself and take her with you. Also Play games with her take her to the park , try to take her somewhere new and fun or do something new. like take her skating my lil girl loved it she is only 2 and a half, also you could try blowing

good luck with things

Answer 6

children are a direct reflection of their parents and their behaviors. Yes you could be doing this to your child...seek help for yourself or you will never be able to help your daughter.

Answer 7

WHY ARE YOU NOT DOING ANYTHING

BEAT THAT BRAT!!!!!