My freinds... are they true?

Question

I had an argument with my friend, but she was the one who picked a fight with me. but, my other friends supported her and not me. None of my close friends supported me. so, are they my true friends? well, the other girls in my class treated me like a good friend.

Answer 1

A true friend is like character, it is tested when it comes up against adversity.  You will now when things get tough who your real friends are -- they will be the one's still by your side.

Answer 2

I think you should talk to them seriously about how you're feeling, ask them why they're against you and what you may have said or done that made them disagree with you. communication is the most important thing in friendships so don't forget to just talk to them. be upfront and honest.  

Answer 3

Honestly,There are no real "friends"in this world.My mother always told me not to depend on anybody.So don't trust everyone you meet because they all end up turning there back on you.Well what was the argument about?anyway point is there are no real friends!loll

hope i helped.

Answer 4

my answer is no well igess it depends girls tend to get i fights more then guys and supposebly what did you argue about? she will get over and also is the girl you got in a fight with popular because sometimes if you  get in fight with some that is more popular thern you are other people will want to take her side because they don't want for her to be mad at them to....the grls thaty are defending her are your true frinds so is the girls you are having a fight with... leave her alone hang out with your other friends let thingscool down.... things with her yes she is you true riends you will be friends again soon i have been there so many times:) hope this helped

Answer 5

It really depends what the fight was about. True friends sometimes have to tell you that you are an absolute idiot. Just because someone is your friends doesn't mean they automatically have to support all your wrongdoings. Even if it was her who started the fight it all depensy on what it was about. Ppl who are - no matter what - always on your side are followers not friends.

Answer 6

If you were wrong (not saying you were), then it's hard to support you, regardless of "friend" status........

Answer 7

depend on what the argument was about if you were wrong then they were just telling the truth if you were right then there not good friends at all

good luck

Answer 8

having arguments isn't such a huge deal, because everyone will get over it soon enough. it obviously would depend on the topic of the fight -- if it was some useless c**p about the smallest thing, then it does seem like she's blowing things out of proportion. if it was a matter of opinion and agreement (i.e. which celebrity is hotter or something =____=;; this is clearly a horrible example), then the friends might have some strong opinions that require "siding". it's good to first check into the subject of the fight. you may have said or done something that touched a nerve and not even know it --- bc it's happened to me many times. it also seems (from the whole "siding" thing) that it's not an argument strictly between you and her, which is a problem. did your friend purposely pick a fight in front of your other friends? because if she did, then she doesn't seem to be a good friend... she sounds like she's embarrassing you in front of your other friends.

HOWEVER the most important question is that, do you guys fight all the time -- maybe over the stupidest things? if there's too many fights (if you claim started by her), then it's obvious that the friend doesn't make enough effort to keep you as a friend. i have a very close friend and we've gotten into arguments, and sometimes i don't even think we're good friends. however, one day i left a concert we both went to and it was night time and i left for about 2 hours. she was so worried when i got back that she yelled at me, cried, and stormed home. that is obviously showing that she cared XD bottom line is, if your friends have been concerned with your well-being and if you guys have been through a lot together, it's ok to have a fight once in a while. everyone can be nice when they want to and that's when you probably think you guys are "good friends". but if there's a big favour you want to ask or need someone to rely on, sometimes these friends don't prove to be good anymore. i fractured my foot and was sentenced to crutches for 2 months. my true friends, as you would call it, asked me out to hang out with them regardless of my state (of course they were a bit worried, but i insisted i'm ok XD), and they would walk me to class (holding my bags and opening doors for me ><), even if they were late for theirs =] observe your friends, and maybe you'll find an answer. don't forget there's also "so-so" friends out there too =T

Answer 9

cambia i tuoi amici questi fanno schifo

Answer 10

well if the fight is between you and her, then ur other friends shouldnt be getting involved. and if they were ur true friends they wouldnt be taking sides.

Answer 11

well it all depends on what he argument was about. sometimes when the truth comes out and everyone else supports it we feel stabbed in the back. if it is something true or something bad that they want you to see, then they are just looking out for you. but if its not then they might not be true. you also have to decide because we dont know the reason for the argument or what it was about, so think about it and look at the good and bad side of things. mabye they were trying to help you realize something or maybe they all just wanted to not support you. but if you all are true friends, then all this will pass away.

Answer 12

It's the summer holidays - so it will all probably be forgotten by the time you go back

Answer 13

on the other hand, you can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends.

Answer 14

Friends come and go. Family is forever.

Answer 15

It's hard to tell. I've been in your shoes. I've seen other girls in our shoes. Girls are terrible to each other. We are so destructive. They do not meet the definition to me of a true friend but that doesn't mean that they aren't your friends since girls are mean. Watch your back with them and time will tell. Things should get better. I found a huge difference going from high school to college. There was a difference (slight) going from junior high to high school. My friends in college were true friends. Junior high (7th & 8th grades) was the worst. It was very traumatic.

Answer 16

no they are not true friends if they ganged up on you then their not worth it go with the other girls who were treating you nicely and show the other girls that you dont need them and you dont accept being treated like that

Answer 17

Don't focus all your energies on which friends are true and which are not. Just have fun and don't get too close. The only people you can truly trust are your family. Friends are for a good time, not to save your soul.