My friend's 10 year old step son is possibly a creepass?

Question

my friend is living with this older guy who has has been raising his 10 year old son .(this kid is not a normal sized 10 yr old,hes huge,like a 13 yrd old) this kid has this female rottweiler ,the dog is very pregnant and lately this boy when i go overthere constantly makes comments about the dog..her puppies and .."how big her tities are" he is constantly laying w this dog,..grabbing..fondeling,,stroking..:mi... like strokes to this poor dofgs t***s. Its his constant doing this..remarks and wierd looks on his favee while he does this thats creepy!!! is THIS NORMAL?? I TRIED TALKING TO MY FRIEND ABOUT HER B/F'S SON'S BEHAVIOR. SHES SAYING IM MAKING IT A BIG DEAL WHEN ITS NOT! I THINK HES A PERV! WHAT DO U ALL THINK??

Answer 1

It is very strange.  He may just be maturing and confused...I think that your friend needs to have a talk with him.  His interest in the dog may just be from confusion because he may be starting to mature and find girls bodies interesting, and for some reason has taken to the dog.  Either way, you are right...this requires a discussion!

Answer 2

thats disgusting!

this kid needs help...now!

Answer 3

Obviously someone has missed the fact that this boy is going through puberty.  He needs to be told that what he is doing is not appropriate, he isn't a pervert he just hasn't had anyone tell him he is not behaving appropriately and that is NOT for your friend to do that is for the child's FATHER to do.  Your friend is of no relation to the child.  She is not married to the child's father so she is no way this child's stepmother.  If the chidl's father allows him to behave in this manner there is nothing that can be done however it is not right to blame a chilld for lack of parenting.  Blame the father for being a dumbass.

Answer 4

It's not that strange for a 10 year old to be curious; however, his parent should teach them acceptable behavior.  This obviously makes you uncomfortable, so you should approach it in the same way you would if he was picking his nose and flingging the boogers on the wall.

Your friend probably became defensive because you might have attacked her with "Your son is a perv".  He's 10 regardless of how big he is.  It sounds like the 10 year old is expressing his affection for the dog in the only way he knows how - he needs to be taught appropriate means of affection.

Answer 5

he's a perv...keep small kids away from him.

Answer 6

He is a perv, but all guys start to be at that age. Hopefully this is something he'll grow out of - and it's your FRIENDS kid so you shouldn't worry.  

Answer 7

Yes, its creepy, but if its not your kid, its not your problem.  The father is obviously raising a pervert.  If the father acts that way and sees nothing wrong with it, then he obviously wouldn't have any objections to his son acting the same way.  There's not a whole lot anyone can do about it though.

Answer 8

THAT IS JUST SICK  I wonder if the puppies are his

Answer 9

Gross.

Stay away from these people. The son is like that b/c he's learning it from his dad. Otherwise dad would be knocking his block off for saying such things.

And if your friend LIKES these people, she has issues.

You don't need friends like these.  

Answer 10

Yup. He's a creeper. He needs a lot of meds.

Answer 11

Wow.

There's two possibilities in this situation:

A) He's a perv that should be seen by a psychiatrist.

B) He's just learning about sexual topics, and likes to talk about them.

Answer 12

ewww- tell his dad that its innapprpriate and he needs to be watched..and keep him away from that poor dog!!!

Answer 13

Not normal.  If he were my kid I'd be worried.

Answer 14

yep defintaly sounds creepy to me....which probebly means his dads a creeper too.

i would just avoid the situation for yourself. if girlfriend dosnt see it, then she will soon enough...

Answer 15

EWW HE IS A PERV!!!

Answer 16

If he is only doing it when you come over maybe he is doing it to get a reaction or attention from you! Maybe he likes you, sometimes when little kids have crushes they will do weird things just to get the attention, even if it is negative attention.  

Answer 17

um.. in a situation like that I would suggest drugs.. or some kind of meds.

Answer 18

Wow that's gross!!

He needs to go to a Dr. and talk about this because although I have heard that when kids start getting intersted in s*x organs of pets or people this is a sign that they have been molested or whatever but this guy just sounds CREEPY!!!!!!!!!!!

If that was my son I would give the dog away and send him to the Dr.

Does the dog show any signs of molestation? You never know there are some creepy men out there who have s*x with animals!! :[

Your friend is to blame if she is looking the other way and if you have some kind of evidence you should call the Animal Police in your town!!!