My friend ALWAYS lies...?

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pretty much about everything.....

I have known her since I was 3 and we don't hang out often... She is a constant liar...I know because she twists her stories everytime I see her...She stayed the night w/me and another friend last night and she was texting this guy named "sky" I know this is wrong but I read some of the texts...They were all saying stuff like "i love you so much" "your so hott" and "im horny" and all that kina sh*t lol....This morning she claims she's dating this emo model Alex Evans....She tells us how everytime she goes to the mall some hott older guy starts hitting on her.....She is a huge emo poser....She dresses completely emo/scene but she is a huge prep....She told us that the modeling agency she tried out for accepted her and begged her to model for them and said all expences would be payed but she turned them down..lie they rejected her...She makes up lies about everything to make herself look all cool and perfect im so sick of it...I barely see her anymore and when I do it's all friggin lies....What do I do...I am afraid if I call her out she will get mad at me...

Answer 1

I've been in the same position as you. Every story that came out of my friends mouth was just a BIG FAT LIE. She would tell us one thing but tell someone else a completely different story. She said she inherited $100,000, but yet kept complaining she was poor. Her lies got so bad that she started telling lies about her father and how he died! Which was completely not true. We just started to ignore it and not believe it. So one day she just stopped talking to me and my friends, didn't even say one word, just wrote a letter, basically all B**S***! It's been 7 months and still no confrontation about the situation was made, and basically no reason as to why she stopped talking to us in the first place. We just excepted the fact that she is a LIAR and she will not change. I know it's aggravating when you know she's lying or catch her in a lie. We chose to not be her friend anymore and basically came to the fact that she is a douche bag (other reasons led on by her lies). In my situation we never called her out on it, which was probably a mistake on our part. But otherwise we just let the lies brush by us, even though it pissed us off when we knew her story was a bunch of bull. You should call her out, but if you know she is going to get mad and end up destroying your friendship, then don't call her out. But if you do call her out, then remember it will probably spark another lie as to why she has been lying in the first place. Lying is a condition and some liars believe their lies are true or want to embellish the story to impress people. Once a liar always a liar. Hope this helped.