My friend! What should i do? She is in trouble???

Question

So, my best friend [she is like my younger sister] has a myspace already. She found out that her dad has her tabbed so he can look at her profile at any time. And, i think its fine and he has the right 2 do that and protect his daughter. So, she found out and is making a new profile that her dad doesnt know about. And, she is requesting me as a friend. But, if she would get hurt i would feel responsible. U know?

Then, last night we went 2 a movie, she was waiting 4 some friends 2 get there that i have never meet. And, so, they called her during the movie and and asked her 2 meet them in the lobby. So, she left 2 meet them and come back in2 the movie. But, she didnt come back. So, she said she went 2 another movie with them, but, i dont know if i beleive it. But, I could tell she didnt want me 2 meet them. Plus, her dad told my mom 2 wait there till her ride came. And, she was very persistant on my mom and me not staying, like, she was hiding something. So, we left.

FACTS:

1) She is a teen, and, most teens dont think. (i would no i am 1 lol).

2) Her friends have a lot of time on there hands so, those r the 1s who normally get in2 trouble.

3) Her dad should see her myspace at any time cuz she shouldnt have anything 2 hide, plus he has the right.

4) What should i do? Should i tell her dad? She has been getting in2 trouble lastely so.

P.S- I dont want 2 lose her as a friend! Help please!

Answer 1

Talk to her dad. Let him know what is going on. But, also let him know that if he confronts her and tells her you are the one that told then she will no longer be your freind and you can no longer look out for her.

I read the kids pages - I read their friends pages so I know what is going on. I only confront them on the dangerous things - but use the rest to steer them around the land mines in life.

Answer 2

it is not your responsibility to tell anyone anything about whats going on but if you are choosing to you are a great friend. if it makes you feel better to inform her dad because your worried go ahead and do it. you don't have to let anyone know it came from you. she will be mad as all teens get made when a friend they trust steps out of that "rebel" stage and takes a step towards responsibility especially when its directed toward them. you have a right to worry about her safety with her new found friends. your concern could be what saves her from a hurtful life style. if she isnt telling you what she is doing with those friends then i would be concerned. your right her father has every right to see what she does on the internet. its a scary thing and can get young girls into trouble. if she feels she has to hide it from him then shes probably posting things she shouldnt and thats not good for her. you do take a big chance of losing her as a friend but all in all she will relize you are just trying to help her and look out for her. good luck in whatever you choose to do i hope it works out for you and your friend. :)

Answer 3

tell her dad ASAP!

you may feel bad telling her dad...but you will feel even worse if something happens to her, knowing that you DIDNT tell her dad.

please, trust me.

i have been in a situation like this before.

hope i helped!

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Answer 4

I would tell her dad what is going on. She may be mad at you for a little while, but she'll realise that you were only looking out for her best interest. If she really is your friend she'll eventually understand and will thank you. Also if you are truely her friend then you would talk to her dad to prevent something bad to happen to her in the future or currently.

Answer 5

Tell her dad it is better to have your friend mad at you then if she is raped or killed because you didnt do anything and you would feel so guility for the rest of your life

The fact that she is hiding these "friends" from even you, her best friend tells me that something is very wrong