My friend and i both like this guy...?

Question

ok so i really like this guy; hes so sweet and caring, and im really suprised hes single, but my friend said that most girls think of him as just a friend, but i think that he kinda likes me too, and then recently my really good friend has been having guy problems (this guy she was head over heels with was just playing her) then she was talking to me about that guy and said, "i wish he was more like ____" ( ___ means the guy that i like) and she already knows that i like him too. so then i was like yeah hes so nice and stuff. then she kept on going on about how sweet he was and that she needed someone like him (what she really meant was that she needed HIM) then this guy whos friends with the guy that she was having problems with, called the guy that i like, because she told him the same thing she told me, that she wanted that guy she liked to be more like ____. so he found out that she likes ____, but he doesnt know that i like him, so he called him up to tell him about the other guy (hoping to get ____ and my friend together) so she told me about it and i knew she was pretending to be annoyed. finally she told me that she liked him too, but she was like but i cant like him because you like him, and because all these bad things have been happening to her i told her that it was ok, and it would be alright if they went out. hes a really good guy and he could help her get better (she really felt awful about that other guy) so i really do want her to be happy, like 70% of me wants them to go out so she can get better, but the other 30% feels awful, i really like him and stuff, and even more so because he kinda showed that he liked me too, but i think that shes so pretty and i feel like compared to her no one would want me :( was it wrong to say that she can go out with him? how do i get over him? i feel like s#!t now because i really did like him, but shes my friend..........

Answer 1

simple, all is fair in love.

Just go for the guy, and whoever wins gets the guy

Dont worry, if shes a good friend, she wont mind, and be confident, guys love that about girls.

Answer 2

then give him to your friend

Answer 3

Its problem, think about good and do the thing that you feel good with.

Answer 4

BOTH OF YOU NEED TO STAY AWAY FROM THIS GUY CAUSE EVENTUALLY IT WILL END YOUR FRIENDSHIP. BELIEVE ME GIRL IM FIFTY YEARS OLD AND NOT GUY IS WORTH A LIFETIME FRIENDSHIP SOMEDAY YOU'LL BOTH MEET MR RIGHT HAVE KIDS ETC. DON'T s***w UP ATTENDING EACH OTHERS WEDDING, GOING TO THE HOSPITAL TO SEE THE NEW ADDITION. DON'T ROB YOUR SELF FROM THE REAL **** BY ARGUING OVER SOME GUY U BOTH LIKE..  

Answer 5

In the real world, your friend would step on your face to get a $20 bill off of the ground, and love could be had by you 2 and you may not even know it.

She JUST got out of a relationship, and she should not be trying to get into another one, and if she is, it means that she does not take these things too seriously.

And, if this is true, then she will be wasting Mr. Sweets time as well, and you will end up catching him on the rebound soon.

Which is not good, might I add.

Tell him how you feel, and let him figure it out.

I'm sure you will get chosen, because of your friends track record.

Good luck.

Answer 6

If she really is your best friend she wouldnt go out with him (no guy should ever come between 2 friends)

But unfortunately you told her its ok so theres not much you can do about and i hate to say it but it will take a long time to get over him if you ever do esp when you see them being affectionate towards each other in front of you

you might have a last chance with him if you sit down with your friend and tell her how you really feel but if you are 70% sure she can have him theres no much you can do