My friend and my creepy teacher ??

Question

ok well im really annoyed with my friend.. my teacher is really obsessed with her. he talks about her non stop and calls her after class. hes friends with her on myspace ( hes like 40 shes 15 )

and my friend changed her age bc adults cant see minors profiles so that he could see it.

now its all flirty and stuff. he talks to her on myspace and it REALLY annoys me that my friend likes the attention.. he used to be a cop so she wanted to dress up as cops and send the pix to him. hes not even cute at ALL

how do let her know that her attention seeking is ANNOYING?

Answer 1

well you may not know every thing that is going on..your friend may have done went and got all grown up on you..this happens a lot not with 40 year old guys but when girls start having boy friends and wanting to be with them more than they do with you it means they are maturing and moving past you...she may be doing things now that you think are gross or discussting...she thinks she is having fun too...it will pass just hang in there and wait on her.

Answer 2

Ask her if she really thinks it's safe to be flirty with a 40 year old man. That would grab my attention.

Answer 3

thats sick! ew... id report it b4 anyone gets hurt. Hes  a phedophile and im sure this is not a first time offence for him. who knows whats hes done!?!?

Answer 4

Perhaps have a chat with her about how investing so much energy and time into someone so much older is so wasteful and potentially dangerous/disfunctional... a 40 year old who has that kind of interest in a 15 yr old certainly has his issues and should be avoided....

Encourage her to seek and send that kind of energy in directions that are more productive and beneficial... remind her that attention seekers become TOOLS to users... I don't think she will like the sound of that.

Answer 5

thats like...illegal and gross and weird

Answer 6

It is more than annoying, it is illegal. You need to tell her that by doing this, she is risking his career, her reputation, and her safety.

Answer 7

report him!!!!  thats illegal

Answer 8

90% of cops are into CP.

I wouldn't be surprised if they have already "met" a few times outside of school. Tell your/her parents right away! The teacher should lose his job and possibly be locked up. Don't be afraid to ask for help.  

Answer 9

that is just sick if i was you id report it, that is child molestation

Answer 10

wow

your friends gunna get raped

Answer 11

I would report the teacher to the Principal or at least to your parents. They'll know how to handle it. He is the one who should be responsible in the situation.

In regards to your friend, she is putting herself in a potentially dangerous situation. You should tell her that what she is doing could/probably will get the teacher fired as well as the possibility of it going public which could be nothing but bad for her as well. Does she really want to put herself in that situation?

Answer 12

That kind of attention is not annoying, it's dangerous. Report it!

Answer 13

send an letter to the principal and let him know what's going on. That is sick and wrong. He needs to be in jail ASAP. You need to just tell her to stop acting like a freak before she gets raped by this nutcase. If she doesn't I wouldn't even hang around with her anymore. You need to bring it to someones attention. Your mom, her mom, principal, another teacher...someone. That's messed up. Good luck.

Answer 14

I have read hundreds of child abuse stories and it always starts like that.Especially sending a picture of ureself dressed as a cop TO URE TEACHER!You shouldnt say anything YET.But later wen u see more weird things,confront her and ask her about it.

Answer 15

Thats creepy!

Shes gonna get raped