My friend asked a guy that I like if he would go out with me...?

Question

After school on Friday my friend asked the guy that I like if he would go out with me (after I begged her not to) I wasn't there when she asked him but my other BFF was and they told me he said, "I'll think about it." I really like him and I want to know what his answer is. What do you think "I'll think about it." means?

P.S. He is sort of shy...

Answer 1

Perhaps he felt pressured by the ambush.  Maybe he wanted to, but didn't like the approach, or maybe he didn't want to, but didn't want to hurt your feelings.  He probably thinks you set this up.  Also, if he's shy, an ambush like that would be particularly off-putting.  Your friends sound like busybodies, and not very good friends.  My advice is to go to him yourself and apologize for your friends.  Tell him that you wanted to get to know him, but that you didn't tell your friends to do that.  Let him make the next move.  Good luck.

Answer 2

i think his answer will b no because ur friend ask him, he will think u as a little gurl that is into palying games. so when u c him tell him ur friend did that on her own but u r interesting in going on a date with him

Answer 3

He's still thinking.If he say's no forget about him.

Answer 4

he wants to say yes but its just better if you ask him in person your self and if you dont want to go out with him tell your friend to get you out of this mess she got you in  

Answer 5

He probably means yes so you should ask him out

Answer 6

maybe he is uncomfortable with the situation but he said he'll think about it to just think it over.

it doesnt mean he doesnt like you though it just means that hes overwhelmed and needs to think it over..

p.s. dont worry!!!!

Answer 7

it sounds like he doesnt really want and just doesnt want to be mean about it or he isnt sure  

Answer 8

There you go hun, he is shy!! I think he's interested but was to shy to say more than I'll think about it to your friends!!  

Answer 9

You should totally go talk to him cuz if your BFF asked he might think ur not interested especially if he is really shy

Answer 10

hey,

if theres one thing ive learnt from experience it is never trust this he said she said stuff. its just like a game of chinese whispers, the message can get mixed up along the way even by accident. or the message from the start could be way off. if i where you i would just ask this guy out face to face and dont worry about fear of rejection for its all part of life. but if u really dont want to do that then just go up to him and say somethin like:

"hey did my _____________ (insert bad describing word here eg. annoying, stupid etc) friends say somethin to u yesterday?"

him: yeah

you: "dam they get so carried away sometimes, ill kill them, they wont tell me what they said or what u said and theyre acting as if they no something that i dont, which they do, but my curiousity is getting the better of me so i just wanted to know what did they say and what did you say back?

him: oh they just asked me if i would go out with u if u asked me

you: *shocked face* dam them! (pretend u had noooo idea)

and then ask him what he answered and see what happens from there. dont worry i think this guy will say yes. good luck! =D

Answer 11

He thinks its a joke something girls do all the time but he keeps his answer open so you wont get the idea that he doesnt like you. he is just waiting for you to tell him that you like him or imply it in some way.   If he wouldve said yes to youre friend he wouldve risked looking like a fool incase they were joking with him.  

Answer 12

it's a yes.

definitely.

but don't ask him out first.

you don't want to seem too desperate.

wait for him to ask you.

and if he doesn't.....

it's not a big deal just let it go.

Answer 13

maybe he thinks its weird that your friend asked him for you

i would go up to him and talk

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Answer 14

does he know you?

if yes in his head "should i or should i not"

if not in his head "is she prttey?"

Answer 15

if he didn't want to he would just have said no. he doesn't want to seem to interested so he said he's thinkin about it but really he already has the answer. i think he's thinkin yes

Answer 16

I'll think about it probably means  I wish she had asked me herself.  You are gonna have to get up the nerve to talk to him.  If you are afraid now, what's gonna happen on the date?

Answer 17

well he will probably talk about his frends and if he says forget it pretend like if it was a joke  

Answer 18

It means he will think about it. Haha. Well. It most likely means that he doesn't like spur of the moment things. He most likely wanted some warning before getting asked out, maybe by hearing from his friends or something might have pre-paired him more. And, don't stress over what his answer is. What happens, happens. Don't worry. Hope this helped!

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