My friend being bullied but not really?

Question

Ok, so my friend's sister's boyfriend is such a douchebag. He's always being mean to his girlfriend, calling her ugly, fat, *****, w***e, burping in her face and she just takes it. I talked to my friend about it and she says her sister says that her sis is ok with it because "he's just kidding." So whatever. Then he called my friend a w***e and a ***** and she didn't say anything! First I'm mad that my friend didn't have the balls to defend herself; it's like she was saying her sister was too sensitive, but she just did the same thing! Second I'm mad that he said that to MY FRIEND! I can't really do anything if she won't do something for herself. But I'm so upset. What should I do? Believe it or not I'm thinking about not talking to my friend for a while because it made me mad that she didn't stick up for herself.

Well, what do you guys think?

Answer 1

she probably is having self worth issues. maybe she thinks she lucky to have the a$$bag. and that she may never get anyone else, so shes scared to stand up for herself thinking it may cause a break up. she needs a reality smack quick.

Answer 2

you need to tell her thats not right. he is walking all over her sister and she needs respect. stand up for those who are to waek to stand up for themselves. thats what real friends do wether she likes it or not. get in his weak *** face and tell him what you think of his ways. make him feel worthless haha

Answer 3

well don't do that, don't stop talking to your friend for a while because you guys are just gonna drift apart, stay talking to her, but what u can do is tell her how u feel, and say to her that, him saying those things make u angry, and the next time u see them u stick up for them and tell him that he better not say that again. also tell your friend that guys are no suppose to treat, her like that, there suppose to take care and by there girlfriends things, what your sisters friend need to do is dump that good for nothing boy.

Answer 4

wow he's an ***...talk to ur friend, you're right he doesn't sound like a good guy, just be there for her because chances are that he is going to get meaner or something like that...seriously look out for her and if you have a chance to talk to a counselor about it do that just in case.

Good luck I wish the best.

Answer 5

Men are animals so dump the pig and go find youslef a stud.

Answer 6

this sounds childish but tell an adult and nobody will know it was you that told.....adults are like that. but it woud be best to leav yourself out of the dich and hang somewhere els..............

Answer 7

first of all tell your friend that she should stand up for herself,  and then talk to the boyfriend and *knock* some sense into him. ;) if he doesn't stop.....kick his @$$

Answer 8

Maybe sometimes you have to stand up for her before she could stand up for herself. Just do whatever you feel is right but don't stop talking to her. It's hard enough to go through that stuff all by her self and it's not gonna make it any better if you stop talking to her

Answer 9

SHE SHOULD DUMP THE DILL WEED

Answer 10

your friend is probably scared.  Who knows how violent this man could be.  There could be loads that she's not telling you.  I wouldn't stop talking to her.  If she's really upset about it, then she needs you.  So don't abandon her.