My friend, who is 15 years old, lives with her mom, dad, and three younger siblings. Her parents told her that she has a different last name than everybody else in the family because she was born before the parents got married. So her last name is the odd one out. She knew it was weird because the father would've had to adopt her in order for him to be her legal guardian, but she's afraid to say anything because they are very strict. The "father figure" has never told her that he loved her, never kissed or hugged her, and hardly ever pays attention to her. She recently found letters in her attic from the Mom to the Dad saying, "Thank you so much for being there for ******. You are like her father in every way, except for the biological part." So we know it's true, she just won't say anything. She wants to wait until they say something to her. Opinions, please? Advice for her? Thank you for all answers!
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