My friend got cheated on, what can I do or say to help her? ?

Question

She walked in on him with a naked girl on top of him. They had very little s*x in their relationship, but a lot of love for each other.. I really want to be there for her right now, but I have never been through such a thing. How can I help her? If you're willing to share some of your experiences and tell me how your friends help you or how you helped another friend, that would be awesome.. Thanks, guys.

Answer 1

The best thing to do for your friend is be there for moral support,it sound like they had some sexual issues in their relationship but it's still no excuse for him cheating on her. Just be there for her and what ever you do do get into calling him names or telling her to leave him because it just might come back to bite you in the butt.If the love is there them maybe they can still work it out but it can only happen if both of them want it.

Answer 2

Just be there for her, if she needs a laugh, to cry, to scream or just take her mind off how shes feeling.

Keep her busy, go out shopping or watch films and chat, show her she has people in her life who wont hurt her, then she will get over him and find someone better.

Answer 3

Show up on her doorstep in pajamas with two tubs of ice cream, a stack of teen magazines, and a few dvd's. you just need to be there for her. Don't interfere, just let her know your there for her.

Rae