My friend got drunk and...?

Question

well my friend has been being an idiot and hanging around with the wrong people that smake and do drugs and have s*x and stuff, and we are both Catholic 15 year old boys. he knows that getting drunk is a mortal sin (really bad) but he did it anyway. most kids these days and all celebrities do drugs and have premarital s*x and get drunk and it is a culture of death. my friend tried to defend himself and said "well looking at p**n and masturbating is just as bad or even worse than getting drunk and smoking." but everyone knows that's not true. he called me the day after he did it and acted all proud and said it felt so good and stuff but thats a lie it seems like it feels good but its not. these days society (celebrities like paris hilton and just about every celebrity) make it seem like having s*x before marriage and doing drugs and getting drunk is "good" when in fact it is EVIL. and saying murdering baby's is okay and all that stuff is no big deal, well thats a lie. i am fed up.

Answer 1

you know what im fed up with?

you and your stupid questions!

first there is a ghost in your house then on the same day you said you have a racist boss and now your friend is EVIL?

whatever thanks for the points!

Answer 2

you can have an open mind about different things.

i think you have issues beyond my psychological capabilities.

maybe you should just talk to your priest or something so you aren't so stressed.

we can't really tell you what to do.

and premarital s*x isn't that horrible. my sister had a child before she was married, and it has brought nothing but joy!

Answer 3

Chill out.

I don't even know if you're really Catholic or are trying to make fun of people (cause of your username). If you are, I'm offended.

Answer 4

If your friend wants to do this to himself, let him. You can tell him how you feel, but really, he'll only hear what he wants to hear. It's really sad seeing what our teenage generation has become. Doing drugs and getting drunk is just pathetic. He's obviously very weak minded... And them celebrities are just sad too.

Masturbating is just a healthy human thing. There ain't anything 'sinful' about it. Not to bash on your religion or anything, but the church does blow things just a 'lil out of proportion.

I find abortion wrong and all that jazz, except for one condition. If the child was conceived due to rape. I'd have an abortion if I was raped, but that's just me. Some woman still keep the child regardless...

I think the whole 'no s*x until marriage' is stupid too. As long as the person is mature enough to take on responsibilities, then whatever. Your friend doesn't sound overly mature.

His parents should really speak with him or something.

But anyways, good luck. I hope everything turns out good in the end!

Answer 5

You seem to have done all you can to help, what else can you do besides express your concern.  If he wants to mess his life up, let him, just don't let him drag you into it.  Its good that you are staying true to yourself, maybe you should find some friends that have the same values as you.

Answer 6

Tell your friend exactly how you feel. He is wrong, and you both know it. Say that if he doesn't straighten up, you two are no longer friends.

Congratualtions on being the strong one and not giving in. Masturbating is not near as bad as having s*x, at 15.

Answer 7

i don't think you should abandon him..i think this is the time where he needs you the MOST!

(:

"baby's is okay and all that stuff is no big deal, well thats a lie"

i agree with 110%

pro-life <3

Answer 8

i like your personality. i will stick with him and help him get in the right direction. its up to you to help your friend.

Answer 9

oh grow up, i think this is really unessecary murdering infants is not, in anyway the same as smoking. have an open mind and consider what your friend means to you. it is not evil it is a different lifesytle. chill out.

Answer 10

if you dont agree with his morals, and dont think you could be happy hanging out with him, then yes maybe you should abandon this freind

especially if you feel this guy could have a negative influence on your life

Answer 11

Be clear that you don't support your friend's actions, but that you are there for him if he needs you. Keep telling him it's wrong, but don't cut him off. Make sure he knows you're there to talk to when he realizes he needs to stop.

Answer 12

you are two different people. if he wants to do that, let him, hes only experimenting. I know your Catholic and all, but its not 'EVIL' .. Chill out. Also, how do you know how good it felt if you've never done it? Why do you assume he is lieing? You dont even know how it feels. Also not all celebs do drugs and have s*x and get drunk. Do your research.