My friend had an affair, with three different men, in a month?

Question

then told her husband.. But she is still in contact with two of them. I don't think she should of told her husband, especially since she is not done. What do you think?

Answer 1

You think she should lie ever more to her husband and not tell him anything? That's retarded. Of course it's better than she told him, now the cards are on the table and he can make an

educated decision about what he wants to do.

Answer 2

she should told her husband and then he needs to divorce her! hello she is a ho.! sorry

Answer 3

she should have told her husband before she shagged all these different guys.  this gir's legs are like white castle...open all night.  sheesh!  her husband needs to get rid of this lawn jockey quick, as she is going to keep messing with these guys, and will end up pregnant.  only thing is, she won't know who's baby that it is.  he is being a doormat, and being deceived.  she is a tramp and she'll end up alone.

Answer 4

The problem is that women today are in a win/ win situation. The man cheats, she wins the divorce. She cheats, well she will still win the divorce court.

This is why most men will not get married today. Marriage is an investment tool for women in the modern times.

So it don't matter what she does. She will win.

Answer 5

He should leave her because it is obvious that she doesn't want to be with him. IF she was sorry for the affairs she would not still be talking to the guys.

Answer 6

Well at least she was honest with her husband. The way they handle it is their business.

Answer 7

I think you should worry about your own business.  This stuff never ends well, so stay as far away from the drama as possible.  

Answer 8

she shouldnt of told him, EVER.

Answer 9

Of course she should have told him. He'd rather know than go for years thinking that she was hiding something.

Now he can get on with leaving her.

Answer 10

LOL...says alot about your choices in friends....

Answer 11

I think he should divorce her! He deserves better then that!  

Answer 12

She is going to get pregnant by one of the other guys.

One of the other guys is going to become possessed with her, and he will want to fight with the husband

friends like her we don't need enemies.

She isn't your friend. She is a selfish shallow creature

Her husband will kick her out, she will come live with you, and you will be seeing 2-3 different guys a week coming in and out of your house.

Answer 13

I can't stop laughing long enough to give a straight answer.

Answer 14

i think she is a S..t   and dont have any shame .  

Answer 15

i think your friend has commitment issues. when you get married you are to love and cherish one another. she obviously doesn't cherish her relationship if shes out cheating with 3 different guys. And i don't understand why she would tell her husband if she is still out doing her dirt. she put him through enough pain when she told him, im sure. and now if he finds out shes still cheating he may just leave her. no man or woman needs to go though that type of pain. especially if they made a commitment to each other. she wants to have her cake and eat it to. but that's not how a marriage works. she needs to grow up and open her eyes.

Answer 16

That's NASTY n she has no respect for herself or her marriage. you should not be friends with a HOE. you need to divorce her as a friend n her husband needs to divorce her as his 'WIFE" so to speak.

MAKE WISE DECISIONS N WISH YOU LUCK

I'M ONLY TELLING THE TRUTH EVEN THOUGH IT WILL HURT.

Answer 17

i think your friend is behaving like a w***e.  

Answer 18

i think you should stop ******* all those guys.

Answer 19

The real issue here is not weather or not she should have told him.  She has no business being married.  She cheated 3 time in one month, clearly she doesnt take monogamy seriously.  Her husband should grow some balls and dump her, she obvioulsy cant keep her legs closed.

Answer 20

I think she has quite a career ahead of her.

Answer 21

ur friend is really dumb

Answer 22

your friend is a ho lol  her husband should divorceher asap

Answer 23

Even a she ***** on heat isn't that low.  She is neither a WIFE or a FRIEND.  

Answer 24

Very nice of her to advice him to watch out for STD's if they still have any form of sexuality left in their relationship.  It may have been nice if she had also told him that she was leaving to sew her oats and leave the poor sucker alone without such a loser wife.

Answer 25

She seems Nice (Y)

Seriously, imagine how her husband must feel, the woman he loves has gone off and slept with 3 different men in a month. That has got to hurt.

He deserves better than somebody as horrible/S****y/unloyal as that.

Answer 26

ummm.....  does she have a phone number?

Answer 27

She needs to get a divorce, obviously she is not happy with him, and from the sounds of it he can do much better. Someone who will actually LOVE him, not use him. If she does it once and he stayed, then she is going to keep on doing it.

Answer 28

What do you mean, she is not done yet?  You mean she told you about it while she was in the act?  That's hot.

Answer 29

Um......I think I need to speak to her directly.....maybe you can give her my number?

LOL

k

Answer 30

Since her husband is still with her it seems he does not mind sharing her with other men. It may even turn him on.

Muslim wives do not seem to mind sharing their husbands with 3 other women. Marriage means different things to different people.

Answer 31

Sounds like she's not the monogamous type.  She should tell that to her husband and let them sort it out.