She is not really on talking terms with this girlfriend of hers as much as she would like to be. Everytime she mentions her and seems frustrated, she also mentions her husband (her friends husband) and badly criticizes him a LOT. It's venemous. I want to tell her, that she should not hate on her girlfriend, just coz she might not have a not-so-great husband. I also would like to tell her to please lessen the animosity. Coz she is poisoning her own system with all that hate.
As a friend of my friend, should I just be a good listener and keep quiet when she is talking this way about both of them, or say something? It really makes me uncomfortable, and yet, I do want my friend to be herself and feel free confiding in me about her personal thoughts. We have been friends for almost 10 yrs now.
Thanks for ur advise.
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