My friend is a bit obsessive?what to do?

Question

OKay i love my friend because she can be really nice and sweet but most times she is really annoying.

to get you to understand what she is like, i have to describe the previous two week holiday i just had.

for the whole two weeks i didn't have the normal holiday that i normally would

that consists of sleeping in and staying up till even 5am.

i couldn't do that becuase:

1. my friend came to my house almost everyday at at least 9am-10am interrupting my sleep

2. she came unannounced as she always does

Answer 1

if she is really annoying you that much maybe you should stop being friends with her. there is nothing more annoying than a stupid girl.

Answer 2

telll her i would have caused her out using up my gas but omg write her  a letter or sumthin!!! asap

Answer 3

She is not obssessed with you, she is using you

Unfortunately, there are friends like that. I cant stnad them, I used to have a friend like that at school.

I would avoid her at school (is she from school?), ignore her calls. Say your parents are not happy that she comes over unannounced and uses your car to save fuel, I mean that is beinbg stingy!!!!

Tell her upfront!

Answer 4

What a loser.

That's not a friend, that's a user. She is just using you, why don't you go to your other friends. What a pathetic rude and selfish person. I would not keep such a person.

Since she is really annoying you that much you should stop being friends with her. There is nothing more annoying and worthless than a stupid girl.

Answer 5

If you really care about her just talk to her about it,eventually you will get tired of dealing with her and lose a good relationship.I have a friend similar to that sometimes people that go over the top like that might not realize how bad they are.

Answer 6

wow! i have a similar friend although not that kind. she would text me and call me but since i'm still studying i can;t get her all my time and when i don't text back she would accuse me of things. how lame. this is what you should do.

1.) try to explain these things to her PATIENTLY and CALMLY as possible. tell her she can't do those things anymore!

2.) if it doesn't work try to show her that you don't like what she does.

3.) still if she ignores it, you just have to learn how to say NO to her. :)

Answer 7

I had a friend like that, who treated me the same way, she had everything, but she always used up my stuff.

Your friend is not obsessed with you, she's just using you, saving her money by using up others. This is what you should do:

Either tell her that you don't like her behavier, and tell her to use her own money

or

Say NO, everytime she wants to use your car or food or etc..

or

Ignore and avoid her

Answer 8

heyy

i reckon u should just tell her

like srsly mann just because of her obssessiveness

she may be disturbing ur life

u srsly need to tell her

but like in a polite way

she might have obsessive compulsion disoder

god knowz

aye dont be sorry :)

Answer 9

OKay---that is not a friend.  That is an incredibly rude, selfish person, that is using you.  Dump her.  Seriously.  If you aren't brave enought to outright tell her, then avoid her...don't answer the door when she comes.  YOU are the only letting her walk all over you.  You can say no.  I have had to tell friends before that I didn't want to be friends with them.  It isn't fun, but it is SO worth it in the end.