My friend is attracted to wierd people?

Question

she is totally normal but with guys she fancies she dosent go for the normal good looking sweet type, she likes bad boys, and even sociopathic type of guys. im not talking about cannibals i mean just the types that like control. its kinda strange, she says looks arent too important but she wants someone who is fun unpredicatable and will do anytihng for a laugh, she says she wouldnt date a psycho but some in the movies she thinks are s**y :O. like latley shes been totally obsessed with the joker from the new batman movie, and ive told her, you need to like stop this coz its creepy, but i dont think she wants to, well i like the kinda people you see on jackass and the gamefreak rocker type so i guess you could say what i like isnt exaclty the norm, so i cant stop her but it just dosent seem right. i dont see how people can be attracted to murderers.

Answer 1

You should be wondering what you see in your friend and whether your own choices are on the "dangerous" side.  It is possible you consider yours "normal" by comparison to hers, but actually feel drawn to a similar type.  You should also be wondering about your relationship with your father and asking if it has prepared you for healthy relationships with men. If not, get help, the sooner the better.

Answer 2

Many women are attracted to "bad boys".Your friend is not the only one.You are afraid that she will attract someone that will harm you and her.Your fear is justified.Looks can be deceiving.

Your friend may get more then she wants in a man.She may get a bad boy in a literal sense of the word.

There is always a risk that the person we are attracted to is someone who will harm you regardless if he wears a leather jacket with chains or a jersey.Bad boys can be good and good boys can be bad.You cannot judge a book by its covers.Just because someone looks nice and makes a fool out of himself does not mean he is a nice guy.

How do you even know if the jackass is not really a jackass if you do not know them?What we see is not always what we get.

You will just have to trust her to make the right judgement.

Answer 3

Tu amiga puede tener otro tipo de amistades, no crees? La libertad de elegir con quien quieres ir. Saludos.

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Answer 4

opposites always attract

Answer 5

Everyone has different taste. Just be glad you'll never have a thing for the same guy!

Your friend is attracted to the excitement of a 'bad boy'. They're fun, unpredictable, and exciting. Nothing wrong with that as long as she doesn't pick guys who are going to hurt her. Most girls like that grow out of it when they realize that they want a long term relationship, and bad boys just aren't going to provide it.

For the record, I grew up a few towns over from the Jackass guys, and they really ARE a**holes. Not nice people. At all. What you see while the cameras are rolling is sometimes funny.. what goes on while the cameras are off really isn't.