My friend is chubby and she doesn't like me anymore because i'm skinny?

Question

ever since elementary school, i knew this girl in my building and she's about my age. we were friends and went to the prom together. my mom even invites her or her mom to parties and funerals even though she is not a family friend. all of a sudden i noticed this year that she started hanging out with these bad girls and started messing around with boys. she even comes home around midnight. we are both 16 yrs old. i dont want to brag or anything but the boys around my block and neighborhood seem to have an interest in me. they say im pretty and they try to date me but i don't talk to them. all of a sudden she started calling me a skinny hoe. i have the feeling she feels insecure. now she doesn't hang out with average or slim girls anymore. she only hangs out with plus size girls. today i saw her and said hi to her but she ignored me and kept talking to her friend and i heard her repeat about skinny b*****s and how they try to steal men from single mothers. i live with both my parents.

Answer 1

she is starting to hang out with different kids. As long as you have not been mean to her and calling her names then you have to realise it is her problem , not yours. Not all friends are forever. Let her go her own way

Answer 2

Unfortunately, I think you're right in that she is insecure. I wouldn't be bitchy back to her - either try to be sensitive to her needs when you guys go out (i.e. don't talk about your weight or what you're eating), or if she doesn't want to hang out, back off a bit and let her have her space. If you want to stay friends with her, give her some time to understand that its not your fault your skinnier than her.

If you guys are irreconcilable, then be the bigger person and try not to feed into her insults (no pun intended).

Answer 3

So what exactly is your question?  Yahoo! Answers is not the place for rant.  Either ask this girl what's going on or get over it.

Answer 4

Well if shes ignoring you she obviously doesnt wanna know so leave it at that .

Find someone new to hang around with

Answer 5

I kinda understand your situation (definitely NOT the skinny part).  I used to live in Crown Heights in Brooklyn from 89-98 and our neighborhood was awful.  Most of the kids I knew came from broken homes.  They'd be 12-years-old, sitting outside at 11 wearing little booty shorts and making out with older guys.  My siblings and I got made fun of because A: We weren't allowed to sit outside and do nothing (God forbid, right?) and B: We lived with both of our parents.  People thought we were stuck up because of it but, honestly?  Who cares?  All the people who are hating on you are a bunch of bitter losers.  YOu seem to have your head on straight, so just ignore them.

Answer 6

Get fat lol? Or wear a fat suit. or make your friend lose weight

Answer 7

Well, it's obvious the people shes hanging out with did it all. Tell her that shes being a pethetic loser, and shes going to go wrong with her life. If this doesn't help, just realize she wants you to feel this way. Explain the situation to her Mom, and she can help too.