My friend is getting married this summer, and she is inviting my in laws, and my sister's family too (details)

Question

This might get a little confusing, so bare with me.

My friend is getting married this summer and her family is family friends with my in laws, and also, her brother is best friends with my sister's husband. My sister's husband is also my husband's brother. She hasn't given my wedding invitation yet, but I don't know yet if my husband is invited. If my husband is not invited, should I be offended? Even if he is not invited, can I ask her if he can still come to the wedding?

I think naturally, I would be rather offended since my husband's parents, and brother's family are invited.

Answer 1

Your invitation should have both your names on it because you are married.

Answer 2

I would be very surprised if your husband was not invited

Answer 3

since you haven't gotten your invitation yet, and she knows you are married, i imagine your invitation will include your husband.

Answer 4

why wouldn't he be? and it would be a good thing if you asked... and if not then don't go... i understand it's a friend... but still he is your husband... respect that please.

Answer 5

Your husband will be invited, if his name isn't on the invite, it's rude, but he's still invited.  You simply don't invite a married person without their spouse, period.

Answer 6

You don't have to ask her if u can bring him also. you friend has to call him using her common sense.

Answer 7

If you didn't receive an invitation then you're not invited. Leave it at that! I

f you were invited then of course your husband would be also. If you're still confused then just ask your friend.

Answer 8

I think it would be highly unusual to invite someone and exclude their spouse. If I were to be invited to a wedding and my husband (well, he'll be husband in November) not invited I would RSVP no.

Married couples are an assumed package deal.

Answer 9

If you are invited, dont you think it would be normal for your husband to be invited as well? It would be strange if you were invited and your husband wasnt....I WOULD be offended if that happens.*

Answer 10

I would strongly suspect that he is invited to the wedding.  Thought: She might not have given you an invitation because she plans on asking you to be in the wedding?