My friend is having kind of bully problems at school. what advice should i give her?

Question

there's these guys that were like teasing her all the time and they would like laugh at her and follow her with a camera and once they even made her cry. Now it's kind of eased up a little bit but every once and a while they still tease her and stuff ans now even sometimes new people come up to her and do things like that. I don't know what i should tell her.......

Answer 1

Why don't you stand up for her or why don't she stand up for herself just don't try to create violence if they hit first then you have the right to hit back but don't start the fight just stand up for each other thats what friends do

Answer 2

1 go to the principle

2 fight back!

3 tell her to ignore her they might be jealous

4 also to rub it off and just forget about all that stuff

Answer 3

idk i think time will help it.... cuz i was bullied fr a while by this one girl and she eventually just stopped but lol i would take the camera and crush it if i were her

Answer 4

I was picked on from grade 4 to grade 9. I was always angry. One day I discovered something that would change me. And that's music. For me it was METAL. It helped me get trough all those years of torture. Another way is to ignore them. Use the anger you have inside of you to make you mentally stronger. I'm not saying to go hurt them, I'm saying to be the stronger and the smartest person and let it go. Don't become emotional, and start cutting yourself, that only makes you weaker. Just look at the bright side of life, and you will feel better. Think of your hobbies that you like, that helps too.

Answer 5

First she should just tell them to shut up.  Then maybe she should tell the principle and the boys would get suspended.  That's how it goes with harrassing in my school.  

I don't know if she's overly sensitive or if she's just really different if that's why they're bullying her.  You should stick by her because that always makes it harder for people to single her out.

Answer 6

well i dont know what kind of person your friend is, but she should just tell them in front of a lot of people. LOOK IM NOT GOING TO SLEEP WITH YOU! IVE SEEN PICTURES OF YOU PEN**** AND ITS JUST REALLY SMALL!!! SORRY!

Answer 7

She should go to the guidance office. Or have someone walk with her. Bully's are just trying to cover their own short comings by pointing out someone else's first. And boys harassing a girl? If someone doesn't stop them now...there's no telling what they will do in a few more years.

Answer 8

Hi!

I found a really great website that talks about bullying, what it is, who does it, and what to do to stop it. Why don't you take a look at the website and see if you find some tips there that you can pass along to your friend to help her.