My friend is in denial that he is g*y...how to help?

Question

My best friend..a dude..is g*y

he stares at men and he gets boners from them...then one night he kissed a guy...and now hes in total denial

...and he totally enjoys that kiss

...how to break it to him?

Answer 1

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h'es not in deinal...hes just confused and just because he likes men doesnt ean he doesnt like women.

there r ppl who like both.

dont jump to conclusions too quickly.

Answer 2

He may be experimenting and not sure of his sexuality just yet.  Everyone needs to come to terms with their sexuality in their own due time.  If you are a friend, let him open up to you about it when and if he wants to.  

Answer 3

Sometime, when the time is right, sit down and talk with him. You have to wait for the exact right time, I cannot stress that enough to you. You need to do it in a way that doesn't make him feel pressured or overwhelmed. He's your best friend, and I think you understand him enough to know how to talk to him about it.  

Answer 4

lol the best thing you can do is be accepting. No one will listen to you if you tell them they're g*y. they need to figure that out by themselves :P

Answer 5

honestlyy,,

dont break it to him,,

its his business and lifee,,

if he is g*y,,

when hes readyy,, h**l come out,,

but until then its not your place to tell him who he iss,,

this is coming from all niceness.

Answer 6

threaten and tell his mother! I'm sure he will admit hehehehe....

Answer 7

Don't. It's not your place. He will come to terms with it when HE is ready. The best thing you could do would be to sit back and support him.  

Answer 8

You know, he may not WANT to be g*y. I'm like that. yeah im totally into certain dudes but i dont want to be that way and im flat out refusing to be that way. he may be in the same boat. he'll come to terms with it eventually just support him. it's not really your place to PUSH him out of the closet! lmao

Answer 9

Well, don't tell him in denial for one... Don't make it seam like a big deal, either. That's going to make coming out even harder on him. You cant MAKE him accept who he is, you just have to just give him time.

G'luck!

Answer 10

Oh em gee! I have the exact same kind of friend. His name's Joe, and he is a total closet case!

Anyways, to get him "out" I would either casually confront him [not to pushy and to not to lightly.] Or you could wait and see, but that might take forever!

Hope this helped.