My friend is leaving me for her bf..im sad?

Question

My friend is leaving hometown for her bf..She just know this guy not long,and she wanna put down everything here and move there to start a new life with him.I feel unhappy over it..it's not because she have a man and leave me,is she left our friendship behind...our friendship is too tight..i did told her that i don't want her to go so far,as i might miss her..what should i do to make myself accepting the fact she is leaving..i burst to tears everynight because of it..

Answer 1

well then she was never really ur friend...or u jus gonna have to support her..cuz i mean c'mon we all have to go our seperate ways n live our own life...dat doesnt mean u guys r gonna stop being friends...im sure u guys will find ways to see each other if u guys really care about one another

Answer 2

just let her go...it'll be sad but as her friend you should support her...right?

and anyway, when they break up or whatever at least you'll still be there for her .

Answer 3

girl you know she'll call/text or even come back to visit ya!  

Answer 4

I would encourage her to go and grow in life but also to keep in touch with you because of your history. Friends are hard to find these days true  friends that is. Love is also hard to find and if she is in love than she has the right to experience it don't u think. Be happy for her and u will be closer than ever.  

Answer 5

This is another of those growing up moments, when your bf realizes that a man is more precious than a previous friend who has been there.  In this regard, she was never really a true friend because if she were the boyfriend would not come in between you two.  Maybe, just maybe, you are reading too much into this and she is just leaving her hometown, this happens, quite often.  So if it is a friendship that you and she have it will out live this boyfriend and if it doesn't, then, go away knowing that you were a "good" friend to her.   God Bless.

Answer 6

let her go she's aloud to. my bestfriends all live 1000km away from me. you meet up with them ever holiday occation.

Answer 7

Depends were her relationship is going...

Answer 8

I've got friends in the States in France and in England.. and were still great friends!

Answer 9

Awe, im sorry to hear this makes you sad.  First off you should support your friend and hope for the best for her. I mean,  its hard to know what will make others happy.  Secondly life is all about change.  These are the things that make up who we are.  We have to accept change and move on.  Its what life is all about.

You should hope that everything works out as your friend wants but if it doesnt welcome her back with open arms and tell her you will always be there for her.  

Answer 10

wow thats sucks. have your friend ever heard of bros before hoes!? i am not saying her bf is a hoe but i am saying she should put her friends first before boyfriends since you and her are so tight  

Answer 11

She needs to follow her heart and make her own mistakes or successes.  If you are a true friend you will accept it and be there for her with open arms in case something fails.  My best friend and I were separated when we were 13 but then got reunited at age 16.  It was 3 tough years of missing her but we wrote to each other every month.  The letters we wrote to each other we keep dear and close.  Our time apart strengthen our friendship.  That's all I can tell you from personal experience and I hope it helps.

At least now you have computers and the internet.  At the time we were separated our only cheap mode of communication was mail because we lived in different countries and calling was really expensive.