My friend is pregnant and she cant tell her parents..?

Question

should i tell them.. or shouild i leave them not knowing...

but my friend will not tell the till its nearly due?

HELP!

Answer 1

let her tell them they'll find out sooner or later

Answer 2

Its her decision dont get involved she will tell them when she is ready or not x

Answer 3

You tell her she needs to be mature about this and tell them NOW!!!!  What happens if she miscarries and starts bleeding to death?  They won't know a thing about it.

You could tell her that if she doesn't tell her parents TONIGHT, that you'll have your parents call and tell them.

Answer 4

you should let her tell her parents

Answer 5

You shouldn't tell the parents, i know your trying to be a good friend, but if it ruins the relationship with her parents you shouldn't be blamed for it, it's her problem, she needs to deal with it.

just be there for her when she needs you, but don't become a friend that she can walk all over.

good luck, :)

Answer 6

And how old is your friend? If she doesn't want to tell anyone someone should, tell her parents thats she pregnant. Or get your parents to talk to her parents about it.

Answer 7

u definately shouldnt tell them but i hate to burst ur friends bubble unless her parents are complete imbeciles they will figure it out WAY before the baby is actually due

Answer 8

They're going to notice when it looks like a basketball is constantly shoved under her shirt.

She needs to tell them ASAP so she can get to the doctor, and keep this baby healthy. If not, she's likely to have birth complications and whatnot.

If she doesn't tell within this next month, I would explain to her, "Look, if you don't tell your parents that you're pregnant, I will. Now that you're going to have a baby, you have to put the baby first over yourself. I want this baby to be healthy and safe, so I am going to tell for your own good if you don't." If she doesn't understand by then, she is dumb.

Sorry, but she shouldn't have gotten knocked up in the first place.

Answer 9

your friend should really tell her parents,even if they have a right go at her.But they will be the best support she could ever have whatever she decides to do .

Answer 10

SHE NEEDS TO TELL SOMEONE CLOSE!

A baby isn't something you ******* keep private! She needs to get on special vitamins and start anual visits to the doctor!

The baby is in serious harm if she doesn't take the care she needs to support another life.

Find a ride and take her to a clinic somewhere! They do NOT tell your parents if you don't want them to but she needs help and fast.

The baby could die if you're not put special medicines ect. ect.

Answer 11

WOW, depends how old she is, cant you tell your mum, a responsable adult can then take over..

good luck xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 12

Don't tell them yourself, it could cause so much trouble. But explain she has to tell them, she needs help to go through with it.

♥ Kimmiii

Answer 13

You should tell your friend's parents, as hard as it may be. You could write them a letter with no return address so no one would know that you wrote it. Some people said that the mom would know pretty soon anyways, but when my neighbor was pregnant at fifteen, my mom figured it out before the girl's mom did. Just tell your friend's parents. Or ask why she "can't" tell them herself. She can, she just doesn't want to.

Good luck.

Answer 14

i think you should stay out of it, its up to your friend to tell her parents.

you just need to be a supportive friend and be there when she needs you.

Answer 15

Wait a minute, how can she be nearly due and her parents dont know yet?  

Anyways, i would really recomend you to just stay out of it.  It is really her decision to tell her parents and it more of her responsibility to tell her parents.  The only advice i can really give you is support her till the end.  Be there for her and give her your support and attention.  I really wish you and ur friend the best of luck!

Answer 16

i know it must be hard especially your young but just tell one of the parents,...they will know sooner or later cause it will start to show

Answer 17

It's her parents and her decision, but you should encourage her to tell her parents.  

Don't worry -- her parents will figure it out pretty soon.

Answer 18

its your friends choice... they (her parents) will find out soon no doubt!!!

Answer 19

your friend needs to tell her parents, for the health of herself and her baby. You know that or you wouldn't be asking. I'd tell her that you give her one week to tell her parents or you will. And stick to it, if she doesn't tell them go ahead and tell her mother.

Answer 20

I hate to tell you, but I'd lay money her Mother will realise well before that!